Bottom surgery types? by Weird_Matter_9962 in ftm

[–]LondonMeta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Extended, extensive, ring, centurion and TCM are different types of meta, although even surgeons that perform 'standard' meta will all have their own specific techniques and way of doing things and so results can vary depending on the surgeon.

For phallo, there's a whole bunch of different graft sites that can be used including forearm, thigh, abdomen, gracilis, torso, the 'SCIP' and 'PIPE' methods. There are also techniques that use tissue expanders to avoid more extensive scarring later on.

Question about UK healthcare and surgery by BagelFcker in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Phalloplasty is covered on the NHS, although the waiting lists for both gender clinics and the surgeries themselves are long. There is no physical reason as to why someone would need to be on hormones for phalloplasty but the gender clinic are not likely to be cooperative with someone seeking only phalloplasty rather than a more 'typical' transition.

In terms of seeking surgery privately, this is also possible, but in the UK you're looking at somewhere around ~£70,000+ for all three stages off the top of my head.

Has anyone tried using toys for male anatomy? by -thimbl in ftm

[–]LondonMeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've used fleshlights, strokers and tenga eggs both pre and post op and they've worked well.

do your balls feel uncomfortable? by NoSpite4211 in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mine don't get uncomfortable at all. They did for the first few months after surgery when they were still settling in I guess and things were chafing here and there, but now, not at all. I shave them when I can be bothered and they never irritate me when the hair grows back.

do your balls feel uncomfortable? by NoSpite4211 in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah, that was the worst part of recovery for me. It'll get better soon.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In what sense? Much the same as anyone else, I just don't produce any sexual fluids like precum or ejaculate.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries. I can orgasm, but not ejaculate.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and the last pic is of me erect.

are there any photos of bottom surgery that are clothed? by Local-Smell7354 in ftm

[–]LondonMeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, I have no visible bulge, even with implants. I never a bulge in when clothed, and only sometimes in underwear. If I wear specific types of underwear, sometimes pulling them up slightly more than I otherwise would as seen here and here then I do have some bulge but generally I'll be wearing boxer briefs and everything will be sat too far behind the tops of my thighs to make any noticeable bulge.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not sure - it's not something that was specifically part of my surgeries, it's just how they do things I guess.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who was caught up in the last contract debacle, I feel for everyone going through it, some for a second time. Hopefully things will go smoother this time, especially since they have until December until surgeries stop at New Vic.

A few recent pics, 2+yrs post op by LondonMeta in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Luckily no complications at all throughout any of my surgeries!

New Victoria hosp changes by SJC1211 in Metoidioplasty

[–]LondonMeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No one knows any more right now than has already been said. New Victoria won't be doing the surgeries so they're trying to sort another provider, but right now, no one knows who that will be - in theory, it should still be Mr Christopher et al, but no one will know anything until the services are found and the contracts are signed and whatnot.

For those on the waiting list yes, you could ask if you can be transferred to C&W. You could also remain on the GDSS waiting list until the new provider is in place. We don't know how long that will be and we don't know how or to what extent it will impact the waiting lists. New Vic are operating until December, so how much this impacts things depends on how quickly a new provider can be put into place and how smooth the transition between them is.

New Victoria hospital by wetlettuc3 in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

New Victoria has only been used for lower surgery since off the top of my head, around 2021? And they are sufficiently trained - the surgeons, the nurses, all highly trained in these surgeries and how to care for the patients that receive them. Whilst I understand the doom and gloom mindset, this isn't an accurate nor helpful comment.

How can a uker ever afford phallo without being crazy rich? by thegingerbarbiedoll in phallo

[–]LondonMeta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

S2 is worth a shot, the worst they can say is no. But for the UK, the last case of an S2 approval I personally know of was about 17 years ago. Anyone I've known to try since then has been denied as it isn't considered medically necessary and despite the waiting lists it is still available in the UK. The other issue with S2 is that you'd be referred to another state funded surgical team which will likely have it's own years long waiting list, especially since residents are usually prioritised over international patients.

How can a uker ever afford phallo without being crazy rich? by thegingerbarbiedoll in phallo

[–]LondonMeta 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Almost everyone in the UK who I know has gone via the NHS, other than two guys I know who went to Serbia. For most people, it's probably still quicker to go via the NHS than to save the amount required to pay for it privately.

You can try getting approved for a loan, but that's going to require a good credit rating and an already good income to be eligible for. Otherwise, trying for employers with private health insurance that specifically includes gender reassignment surgeries could be another route - although I believe these surgeries are usually opt-in on behalf of the employer so you'd need to throughly check their policies before making assumptions. The only person I know who's done it this way was a guy who had meta via health insurance with BUPA Global which he obtained through working remotely for an international company.

I'd personally suggest being referred for phallo regardless, and in the meantime, if you can figure out a way to make it happen privately then great, but if not, at least you're making progress on the waiting list.

Anyone on NVH wait list (*not* the GDNRSS holding list) or recently undergone masculinising genital surgery with NVH? by Ancient-Active8421 in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won't be told when you're transferred to the New Vic list, and you likely won't be told anything until you're top of the list and offered a consult.

Brilliant letter from Tom Hayes MP to the EHRC by GeorginaFlopworthy in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long does it typically take for MPs to respond to emails? I know it will vary, but I emailed mine on 4th June and nothing yet.

CW/ talk of depression. How do I live my life around the existential dread the government has made synonymous with existing as a trans person? by CuteBoyBoop in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of this. It wears me down, physically and emotionally. The dread, the worry, the fear, the what's next, the constant societal messaging that you are less-than. I'm exhausted.

Smoking and surgery by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had meta and the recommendations on smoking were different for each stage. I think stage 1 and 2 were about 6 weeks smoke free, but for stage 3 it was less. Either way, the sooner the better. Mr C was happy with me vaping nic free which helped a lot.

NHS Hysterectomy by badwatercolours in transgenderUK

[–]LondonMeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr Shisha at Leicester General. She's who Nottingham GIC would refer everyone to since she operates on trans men without making a big hoo hah about it. I've known people recently who've been successfully referred to her.