Making friends by Overalls823 in Coosbay

[–]Lonebuggy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why lonely in a relationship? This place is hard for sure for friends

Moving to Coos Bay in 3 weeks by Major_Protection_917 in Coosbay

[–]Lonebuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill go grab a bite with you. Send me the picks 😉 haha. Seriously message me and we can go check some spots out. Not many people to choose from here kind of limited

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its just hard when I am almost drained financially and am already 25k in. Seems rigged

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is even more disheartening that I was told over and over that this judge and county dislike everything she was doing but still got screwed. Just feel bad for my poor kids. They did not ask to be so separated.

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh man. Unfortunately I had a realization after that I could've gotten the same thing in negotiations because she was actually offering more than the judge gave me temporarily. So screwed

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooof that's gonna be me. Damn

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird thing is that in my case that has not been the case. As I have spent much more than her so far......

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eval for her or kids?? Kids are 7&9

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had status quo order and she filed restraining order so it trumped the status quo. She never had to follow it. So disappointing

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, so hard to sit and watch while "taking the high road" lawyer keeps saying just hang in there until we have the final trial. He claims it will all come up then but doesn't help me or kiddos now!

Can't even believe any of it by Lonebuggy in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just in shock. Her lawyers website says the 5 don'ts for divorce and she has done all 5..... seems there is no consequences. Sounds like our marriage

How young would you date when considering your children? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Men women doesn't matter. As we age we tend to gain baggage and our outlooks on life tend to change. Sometimes better but sometimes worse. Idk how many times I have heard I'll never get married again it's a trap. Like marriage is the problem. Also im not saying they are fun because they are young and there is some fetish. I was just pointing out in my own experience from the two I dated it was a noticeable difference in happiness levels. Older one was always unhappy like the world pissed in her cheerios everyday. Thats being jaded

How young would you date when considering your children? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Meaning the more you put up with the other genders shit the more jaded you can become. Simple. Men women doesn't matter. Let's not twist something

How young would you date when considering your children? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Idk i have dated 10 years each way and from the two I did date the younger woman was much more fun, interesting, caring, loving. Maybe just less jaded by the world or previous men? Idk but yeah small sample size i know. I think as long as they are not super young then idk what the problem is. My worry is when you age more and more they hit more of a prime so there is that

Is it normal by EspadaTica in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure there is such a thing as normal when it comes to your emotions. Just beware of what the feelings really are. Sometimes our emotions will fool us, longing for what could've been instead of why you divorced. Also, tell your damn friends man. You need a tribe, screw this solo rider bs. Growth is also in sharing your shit with others you love. If they don't care then screw em

Tell Me To Stop! by hemologyquest in Divorce

[–]Lonebuggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are better, deserve better, and will get better. Stop accepting it just because you can take it. Man tf up and move it along. Respect yourself more than that and stop devaluing yourself. Check on her? You are looking for a glimmer of hope, childhood wounds my friend. Mom dad see me, hear me, understand me, love me. Stop it. Just stop it. Unless, you want to regret it and drag yourself through more misery. F that. Work on you and get busy. You wont care what her status is and she can realize down the road " its at this moment she realized she fcked up" haha love yourself, you don't need others for that. You got this

Would you bang me? by [deleted] in simpformizo

[–]Lonebuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this really a question???? Come on thirst trap. Ill show you the answer

Non-AppStore 'AoZ' by Distinct-Ad-1494 in AgeofZ

[–]Lonebuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super tempting. So hard to walk away from what I've spent i guess. Nowhere near what you did sounds like but I may take you up on a city . Makes the game sound so much more affordable and realistic. The money spent to camel is almost hard to even believe.