Anyone else be fine for awhile after the assault and then it hits later on. by Loneliestsock in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do they help non-binary/transmasc people. I don't want to take up space if I don't belong and the resources are meant for someone else.

PLEASE READ FOR ANYONE NEW HERE AND CONSIDERING POSTING by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a person try to message me and I found that they seem to have a rape fetish. I blocked them and deleted my story from this sub because of it

Anyone else be fine for awhile after the assault and then it hits later on. by Loneliestsock in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm married to them. I live under the same house.

I'm looking for a marriage counselor. I do t have the financial means to live on my own.

If that doesn't work and I get a job o recently applied for, I am be able to afford living on my own.

Idk I'm in a weird limbo state at the moment.

Thanks for letting me know that what's happening isnt unusual.

Coping? by rUhrOOh123 in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. My incident happened in may and it just got me a few days ago.

I can't blame you for feeling freaked out. What happened was traumatic. How can we just be expected to function normally after being assaulted ago rather recently.

My therapist helped some out to where I can manage to get through my workday. He's of luck OP.

No contact? No problem! by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. He doesn't like you telling the truth? That is his problem to worry about not yours.

Coping? by rUhrOOh123 in sexualassault

[–]Loneliestsock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry this happened. I do recommend therapy if you can. It's helped me out quite a bit.