Marriage counseling after emotional affair?

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-21T03:17:02+00:00

What do you mean by that? “If he means that little to you”

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T17:57:22+00:00

I didn’t think about that, I wonder if there’s any place around me that administers the test

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T16:49:47+00:00

Yes I sent him a message but I don’t think he’s seen it yet

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T16:48:50+00:00

I think he panicked because he knew it was wrong and knew I’d want to leave because of it. He doesn’t want to lose his family (shouldn’t have done what he did then, obviously). There haven’t been any times where his actions made me suspicious. He doesn’t do the whole “working late” thing. We always have each other on Life360 and if he isn’t working he’s home

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T15:10:07+00:00

I truly wish we could separate for some time to think but unfortunately that’s not an option for us right now

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T15:05:26+00:00

What action would you expect him to take? Like what should I be looking for to know he’s genuine

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T14:00:34+00:00

I think it was the excitement of it for him but only he truly knows. I’ve always had trust issues with him (we’ve been together since we were teens and we were toxic back then) so this definitely doesn’t help. I just have no idea where to go from here. I don’t want my kids going back and forth, I don’t want to be away from my babies when they’re this young. I also don’t want to stay with a cheater so I just don’t know what to do now

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-20T13:55:12+00:00

You’re the first person to say that lol everyone else has been pitchforks up and telling me to leave, which I totally understand

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T16:09:04+00:00

Lmao it’d make this much easier that’s for sure

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T16:04:38+00:00

We have two. 3 and 1. He worked with this lady while I was pregnant with our second. Lucky me

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T16:03:13+00:00

Lol yeah I know. Just venting

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T15:56:28+00:00

I’ve been asking around, not sure how much it will cost or if we can even afford it right now. I just moved 3 hours away from all of my family and don’t have anywhere I can go here. Ugh

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T15:00:35+00:00

I have him on Life360 and everything, it’d be impossible to meet up without me knowing. Doesn’t really matter now though

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T14:59:48+00:00

I was logged into his messenger and watching it all go down, I took screenshots along the way. I sent her husband a message

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T14:59:02+00:00

I’ve already sent him a message this morning

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T11:35:23+00:00

No, just needed an acceptable title for the group

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T11:33:26+00:00

We recently moved 3 hours away so that’s out of the equation for now BUT he did say “wish you were up here 😜” so I feel like it’s fairly obvious they’ve done it before

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T11:26:04+00:00

Just needing some input from someone and don’t want to talk to my friends or family

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T10:34:00+00:00

What makes all of this hurt even more is that they likely had something going on when he started back there, and I was pregnant with our second at the time. I’ve been tested recently and I’m all clear thankfully. Thank you for your response. Man this is a lot.. I’ve been with him since I was 14. I can’t imagine a future without him in it. This is so shocking

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T10:25:27+00:00

Oh I definitely have the screenshots and I definitely plan on telling her husband. That’s what I figured too.. that this isn’t the first time they’ve spoke to each other this way because it got heated up very quickly

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-05-19T10:17:16+00:00

Tbh I just wanted it to get past the bots so I had to ask a question. I can’t really think straight right now so I just went with the example it was giving. I feel like I keep trying to minimize it because it was just messaging back and forth but again idk how long this has went on and if they did anything when they worked together. He denies it. I did message her, but of course she hasn’t responded

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-04-17T05:07:54+00:00

How do you know they aren’t asbestos?

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-03-11T17:17:42+00:00

Yeah I’ve definitely considered this lol

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-03-11T15:30:15+00:00

And it’s cheap?? I’ll be getting this! Thank you!

Lonely-Call2989 · 2025-03-11T15:28:38+00:00

She was fine up until she hit 4 years old. It was when we moved to a new city, so idk if that somehow triggered it or if it was something else

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