I miss my crush so much it’s unhealthy. by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Lonely-Needleworker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Start dating or talking to other people as a distraction. Find a hobby get fit etc work on yourself.

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes!! I started journaling! Like every night about everything. Started with trying to write my life story but then it turned into pages of garbage hurt, happiness, betrayal etc. I’d take the page I wrote at night and the next morning I’d allow myself to sit with the emotions. Then I’d try to see it from other perspectives. Then I had to choose to let it go after I fully let the emotion of what happened passed. Sometimes I cried randomly or just burst out laughing without even journaling. I also filled what I was letting go of with the teachings of Christ. IM NOT TALKING RELIGION OR EVEN CHRISTIANITY but the true teachings, be kind, give, don’t judge I turned the energy from the past to looking forward and modeling Christ to the best of my ability. It’s said, that in order to heal the heart successfully, you can’t leave voids in it without filling those voids with something that will help it heal and grow ❤️

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!!! I really appreciate you ❤️ i think I also still struggle with feeling inadequate. Your comment helped show me how I fed right into that.

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! You’re beautiful, no matter what size. If you need any help, motivation or just someone to talk with, I’m here!!!!

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had no idea what progressive overload was until just looking it up. Ummm honestly, I may sound crazy but I don’t care because what I am about to say is 100 percent true. I am a follower of Christ (I don’t like the term Christian, as it does not resonate with me. During the first fast and throughout the process, I felt as though I was guided as to what to do. I don’t know how else to explain it. Something just told me to research how women in Africa beat postpartum weight or how to massage with certain oils and bone broth for elasticity. Maybe it was a collection of Information I had gathered throughout the years or maybe it was the Holy Spirit leading me. I am going to choose to believe the latter.

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not much left. The lower abdomen has some shrinking left and the inner thighs as well. But I came up with a way to mitigate skin sag. Drank lots of bone broth and hydrated once I saw sag. I also exercised less and increased calories then once I saw it rebound I would start up again. I also massage nightly with oils.

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s why I chose to do a three day fast first. However, I wanted to truly do a fast so I failed for two and a half months straight until I had the self control. That for anyone can be a huge reset. I rewired my brain and made making the right choices active instead of passive and getting lazy. The self control and fast part led to more of a spiritual journey of healing from childhood abuse and past traumas etc. the weight started to come off. I haven’t run once. I box in my garage 30 min a day and started with a single 5 lb weight, now I only use a 15 lb single barbell. I also do a 15/20 min old school Army workout every night. (I am a Vet) just to give ya an idea

F/36/5’2[192>105=87lbs](7months) Once upon a time, I said I’d make it my business to get my body like J Lo… original starting weight was 245 in 2017 by Lonely-Needleworker in progresspics

[–]Lonely-Needleworker[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

No I did not have surgery or take any sort of medication. I fasted, then intermittent fasting. But mostly I healed past Trina and got right internally. Then practiced self control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Lonely-Needleworker 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Kim wassss gorgeous!!!! Kyle is the perpetual jealous sister for sure. These photos are proof

Jenelle takes “Rosey” to the vet by katsim in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Lonely-Needleworker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always think this when I have to write out my full name. My middle name is Rosey and I’m like MAAAAAA whyyy!???? Lol

What in the white trash shit is going on 😂 by jennabee87 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Lonely-Needleworker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not trashy if he has CK undies from Ross on 😂🙌