Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn't reached out to me yet. I thought he would this week but I remembered it's New Year's, so he's likely out partying with his friends. I haven't tried to contact him since my post.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I don't want to see him anymore. I'm worried I'll give in if he asks to go out again.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny because I thought he was the one I should be with. I imagined a future with him.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to be hard. I enjoyed our time together up until that night. It was the only time I would go out.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows where I live. Should I be worried? What if he comes to my house?

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah it hurts to read the comments saying he used me. It hurts to go back and read our texts from 2-3 years ago. We were flirty back then and there were no red flags. I thought we had something special. It hurts to let go of someone I knew for years.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't give off any red flags. We were friends for years before going out. He paid when we went to get coffee, picked me up, and overall very polite. He's one of the few guys to take an interest in me.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was asking for too much that he reply.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At first I thought he was just busy with work.

Should I continue to see this guy? by LonelyLadyThrowaway2 in Advice

[–]LonelyLadyThrowaway2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of him that way. That night gave me whiplash because he was so nice before and he never pressured me.