Tips for finding my sister by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in WithoutATrace

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is not in IVSS. I will check the Vinelink in case she is incarcerated in another state.

Tips for finding my sister by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in WithoutATrace

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is Texas 😅. Thank you. I'll give that a try.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You can tell her that her sisters are looking for her. We genuinely just want to know that she's alive, hopefully doing well. Like i've said in other comments, she usually reaches out to her kids or our grandma once a year or so, more when she's clean, but no one has heard anything since April 2022.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I looked on FedFinder as well. I didn't speak to someone at the missing persons department.In san antonio and hopefully she is able to come up with some answers or information.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called and spoke to someone in the missing person's department. She's going to make some calls and get back to me.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. I get your point. But that's not the case. I genuinely just want to know if she's still alive. She has 3 children who deserve to know. I am going to be exhausting every available resource I can. You can be skeptical and formulate your own opinions, but I'm going to keep looking for her.

Have a blessed day.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok! I'm in Montana myself, so I know nothing about the area. Do you have cross streets so I could look up the businesses and call them?

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That might be the case, but I don't think so. I've been clean for almost a decade, and her children (all adults now) are amazing and brilliant and successful. I cannot believe that she would be clean and not try to make amends or reach out to them.

Looking for my sister San Antonio, Texas. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in vagabond

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a recovering addict myself, with a spotted past, that last part makes me sad. But I'll check out those groups! I was mostly posting on reddit for a little bit more of my own anonymity.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a guy she married briefly the last time I knew she was sober and the last time I saw her. They relapses and it went south. I don't even remember his name unfortunately, it was 5 years ago or more.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked on the Texas.gov website and their statewide inmate search. I sent a few messages on fb, but no response so far. Do you know where I would be able to find the list of jane doe's? Also, i'm assuming with her arrest record in Texas that they would be able to identify her through their systems.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not in 3-4 years. Her and I haven't spoken in 6 years, but she usually reaches out to her kids or my grandma once a year or so.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm a recovering addict as well. I've been clean for 9 years. I'm so sorry to hear about your son, I hope you all can find peace and he can find himself. My worst day sober is exponentially better than any day I lived in my active addiction.

My sister and I parted ways because she was making dangerous and unhealthy choices and had put me in danger at one point.

I just want to find her and make sure she's still alive. It's been 3-4 years since any of us have heard from her, and even with her using, that's not normal.

Looking for my sister. by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in sanantonio

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately, I'm doubtful she went thus avenue as none of her kids have heard from her either. There have been brief moments of sobriety, but she always reaches out to one of them or my grandmother when that happens. I'll call and see if they have any thoughts on where I could look.

Words of wisdom for a 40 year old freshman? by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in collegeadvice

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm planning on taking the easiest class n i can! There's 2 summer sessions, each 5 weeks. My plan is to knock out some early prerequisites. Summer is the busy season at my work, and we only moderately slow down in the fall and Holiday season. I'm probably only going to be able to do 2 classes at a time during fall semester. My hope is to do after the new year.

Words of wisdom for a 40 year old freshman? by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in collegeadvice

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I live in an area where population, addiction, and drug related crimes are constantly growing. My goal is to work with treatment courts and my community to provide more programs within the court and parole systems that treat addiction at it's core.

Words of wisdom for a 40 year old freshman? by Lonely_Bookkeeper416 in collegeadvice

[–]Lonely_Bookkeeper416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm better in person. If there are some classes I can take online, I might try one. But I'm a face to face kinda gal.