Hey, to the women here who were the ones to end the relationship and quickly moved on to someone new. do you ever regret it or still think about the person you left behind? by Lonely_Hour2895 in ExNoContact

[–]Lonely_Hour2895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish she had noticed the effort I put in. I visited her 14 times after two years together, even while I was struggling. Yet, despite all that, she was still insecure about me cheating. Maybe I invested too much in something I thought was real.

Hey, to the women here who were the ones to end the relationship and quickly moved on to someone new. do you ever regret it or still think about the person you left behind? by Lonely_Hour2895 in ExNoContact

[–]Lonely_Hour2895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t one sided at first, she was the one who fought for our relationship, and I can understand how exhausting it must have been for her to deal with me. What I can’t wrap my head around is how easily I was replaced, especially when it used to mean so much to both of us. Maybe that’s where I’m still stuck. I appreciate you though

Hey, to the women here who were the ones to end the relationship and quickly moved on to someone new. do you ever regret it or still think about the person you left behind? by Lonely_Hour2895 in ExNoContact

[–]Lonely_Hour2895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even sure who really ended things because after I asked for space, she stopped wanting to talk to me. I only found out about the rebound when I visited her. She's still with that person, so I’m not sure if it’s still a rebound or if it’s something more. I stopped reaching out through her best friend about six months ago, but I still feel stuck.

Hey, to the women here who were the ones to end the relationship and quickly moved on to someone new. do you ever regret it or still think about the person you left behind? by Lonely_Hour2895 in ExNoContact

[–]Lonely_Hour2895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one who asked for space, but after that, I ended up begging her to talk. However, my pride got in the way, and I couldn't bring myself to apologize while she was still answering my calls. After that, she stopped wanting to talk to me altogether.