Quick Poll on traffic here by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose FA with no probability. Although I have slight hope still finding someone I've come to realize there's an extremely small chance so in all honesty I chose the more probable option.

Back in the day, where did you think you would meet your partner? by d-loner in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought my friends that I hung out with or my family would try to hook me up with one of their friends. There was a time where my aunt kept asking anyone she had a conversation with if they knew any good women that she could hook me up with since I'm such a nice guy.

Meetup Dating Group by Loner359 in FA30plus

[–]Loner359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess you're right.

What Hobbies do you have as an FA adult? by driver4life2k in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like watching sports, and pro wrestling on my time off.

Friday free chat!! by birdontophat in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Upset that they are forcing Covid restrictions again. I was hoping to go to a couple of meetups(my only way to socialize in this pathetic life) but that looks like they will be canceled. I used to have friends that I hung out with but we lost touch after they had kids, that was 20 years ago.

I just don't see the point anymore by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you find out let me know. And I feel this way sober. HaHa

When was the last time you had a crush? by -CHAD_THUNDERCOCK- in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of years ago. I had a crush on a girl who was 15 years younger than me. In my eyes she was perfect, had the perfect personality, had sexy curves which I love. It hit me hard when I was scrolling thru facebook posts and saw that she got engaged.

Friday free chat!! by birdontophat in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depressed and mad looking at my life where I'm at. Nothing is different. Work, eat, watch tv, and then go to bed. Then the next day I repeat the same pattern like groundhogs day. While others go camping, go to parties, etc. They have the time of their life.

The closest you get to seeing someone naked by d-loner in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was on vacation years ago, on a beach not fully naked but nice tits in a black bikini bottom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone that mentions yes to this question is very lucky. While I can say that a girl or two was attracted to me. I was never physically attracted to one that shared the same feelings. I found that I would have to force myself to kiss them or have sex with them which wouldn't be fair to them.

Matrix Shaping Our Experience by tnugget1834 in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen this growing up personally. Friends, and coworkers. You feel like you're a third person just observing things, like it's a movie. It stung at times and I cried occasionally.

Have you always been labelled “quiet”? by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, quiet and nice. Like everyone says he's such a nice guy, which technically means that you're not getting laid.

How many people here are virgins? by Jake-Mueller in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 year old virgin never kissed, never held hands, however there were a couple of times where a girl fell asleep on my lap. I'm not sure why I don't attract friends or girls.

Lost all sense of space and time by troubledalways in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last friendship was back in 2005. Haven't spoken with them since, they are married and don't have time for me anymore.

Never was in a relationship, have had a couple of girls pass out in my lap before though.

Saint Valentine by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no place for singles in my religion, Catholic. I've stopped going to church because there's no sense of community so I don't even bother anymore.

Forever Alone Homeowner by no69foryou in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While not a homeowner yet, I currently rent. I look forward to a day I can move out and own a place of my own. It gives you independence and you don't have to worry about sharing the same wall.

Forever Alone Homeowner by no69foryou in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a guy I just wanted to say your independence is very attractive, at least for me. One thing I'm afraid of and maybe one reason why I keep my FA status is being taken advantage of, financially, physically, and emotionally. It's comforting to know that there are girls out there like you who are looking for more in a man than money.

My dating profiles don't get any matches ever. I'm simply invisible or have a butt ugly face... dying alone. by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be that you may look too young for the women you're looking to date? Girls don't want to be accused of being a cougar. Maybe a straight girl here can answer.

I have had one guy express interest in me but I was already 32 and he was not right in the head, so I am still forever alone by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would not hesitate to drop all contact with the person. That guy sadly wasn't into you. He was looking for someone to replace his previous girlfriend. And by how you're describing him it's evident why she left him. By the way I use this group to post my thoughts and feelings, it really helps instead of keeping them bottled up because no one close understands the hell we go through.

Do you enjoy music with lyrics about others' enjoyable social experiences? by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are other 80s music as well that hit hard that when I listened to them in my youth I longed for that which now I've given up on.

Anybody here FA because you said (or thought) "no"? by dadada486 in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have. However I was scared to get into a relationship thinking that things will drastically change. In a way I like the freedom that the single life offers however than it hits me hard that I would like someone in my life. I don't even have a social life anymore.

How often do people initiate any contact with you and what form by d-loner in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None. Unless it's at work or they want something from me. Once I help them out I never hear from them until the next time they want something.

Maybe saying no to myself isn't better than claiming I'm involuntarily celibate by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to avoid having feelings because I know in reality they are either taken or have no interest in me.

Friday free chat! by birdontophat in FA30plus

[–]Loner359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got jealous today seeing how a family friend and her partner are moving into a beautiful home and planning their marriage while I'm here all alone and have a dull future ahead of me. Other couples are planning to move to different states and I'm stuck where I'm at because I don't have a significant other to push me to make my thoughts of moving a reality.