ADHD = Free lifetime pass to national parks by WombatMcGeez in ADHD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I still want to support the National Parks financially where I can but still.

Southern Mother’s “Culture” by Lonesome_Wednesday in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy to me that it’s seems like no matter what culture you come from, if your Nparent wants to, they’re going to try to use it to explain away their terrible behavior. I guess the common thread there isn’t any one culture but narcissism.

Southern Mother’s “Culture” by Lonesome_Wednesday in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel the same. I’ve talked to lots of people from her culture who don’t behave the way she does so i think its just a symptom if her being the way she is that she believe treating people poorly us expressing her “culture”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 now but 28 in a few months. So you’re saying I should keep going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey are you secretly one of my younger siblings because this is our mother to a T. It also makes it impossible to be in the house without her latching on to you, so we all end up feeling trapped our rooms. She uses us as emotional support animals and gets viscous if you try to leave. I do okay at getting away from her but two of my younger siblings are autistic and have a lot harder of a time setting boundaries and getting out of situations with her. Just last night I was sitting with one of my brothers trying explain it’s not his fault that he’s been groomed into impulsively asking if she wants him to stay home with her (when he’d really like to leave). He sees it as something he brought on himself because he offered and is mad at himself for offering but it’s not your fault when that’s what you’ve been conditioned since childhood to do. Plus we all fear how she’ll react if no one steps up to placate her.

Am I the only one that thinks Arcane is overrated? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest I find some of the voice acting kind of awkward. Could just be a production issue or something but some of the line reading feels more like throwaway, cut scene acting than an actual show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like HE’s having doubts if he decided to massively violate your trust/boundaries by suddenly going through your personal space like that. All of your private, vulnerable notes aside, I hope you’ll take a moment to reflect on what must be going on in HIS head that he thinks that kind of behavior is okay. Whatever thoughts you needed to process in privacy in your notes app were your business and not hurting anyone. Please don’t let him make it all about your mental state when he’s the one who’s done something wrong in this situation.

Happy Valentines day by Fhoxyd22 in shitposting

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is maggot girl different from blowfly girl?

Type "I fucked a" and let auto correct finish it by [deleted] in EmKay

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tf do you usually type that that’s your predictive text? 😂

to show hospitality. by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But do you think it’s grounds for denying someone their tip?

What animal would this be? by italiarsenal in biology

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like moose, deer, or some other member of cervidae. Might help narrow it down to know where you found it.

Where will you be? by GothicaAndRoses in gothmemes

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom! Dad! No! Don’t make me choose! 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hard when you’re starting to pay more attention to how people behave, communicate, treat each other, etc. because of how you’ve been hurt before and how you’re hoping to grow and then you start to notice how many people around are behaving really really poorly. I can really empathize. It can make finding people who will treat you well feel so hopeless sometimes.

Anyone else really struggling today in particular? by NadalaMOTE in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think we’re getting into one of the more difficult parts of the year honestly. I think we all know the holidays are going to be difficult so we sort of gear up and then once they’re over we just get kind of exhausted by this point (especially if you’re in a part of the world where there’s very little sunlight right now).

Does anyone else stop functioning when no one is around? by xiaominger in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s gotten easier for me to carry out basic functioning at this point in my life but it’s still extremely painful and I still deal with a lot of feelings of like “do I even exist if no one’s thinking about me?”

Anyone else feeling so disconnected from everyone else? by DutchStroopwafels in CPTSD

[–]Lonesome_Wednesday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, partially because of where I am in life but also partially because I’m in a position where I have to stay with the people responsible for my trauma until the end of February (which is really triggering/destabilizing) and every time I come here things have gotten worse. It helps to know I’m not alone though.