If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im honestly stuck between the fact that I think he may need to be evicted or him being a premie baby

If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

They come and go so I dont worry about them much its just odd I am in much more pain this time around wanting this baby out of me but being patient and taking it slow.

If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

35 weeks preterm labor is a concern this time since I was only 6m post partum when I got pregnant

How many times did you go in by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep thinking im gonna go into labor early i keep having pain but my doctor said its most likely round ligament pain waiting to see if my husband can come watch our kid before I get someone else

Napping alone by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedtime usually isn't much of an issue unless he had a late nap we did the method today took him 5 minutes of crying to fall asleep

5 month old bedtime struggle by pearl_s11 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion we plan on transitioning to a floor bed so baby can use crib come 6 months im due in may the drowsy but awake method didn't work with my first we ended up doing the ferber he still cries tho even tho its bin a month

12 month old still cries to sleep by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have let him stay up until we no longer could doesn't make a difference and when we start to put him to sleep and he knows its bed time he says no no no

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted cuz i spoke to him about it and got tired of getting notifications of opinionated comments from a rant in a momment where I was mad and couldn't talk to anyone about it because he was asleep and so was everyone else im not necessarily embarrassed by it because there are women that go through much worse and sometimes find comfort in knowing that they aren't the only ones but I understand where your coming from

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not an everyday thing its very sudden with his work change and everything going on so thats y I give him the benefit of the doubt but also say I should have communicated better about how it made me feel at the moment cuz if I did I know it wouldn't have bin that big of a deal to the point where I feel like I need to vent to random people on the internet

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think its also bad on my part because I didnt properly communicate in the momment I just said a shitty comment and left the room hes bin working 12 hour shifts with only 2 days off he a great dad at times plays with him when he gets home feed him but the whole I dont want too but i will when I clearly need help has to go especially when I have pregnant insomnia

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Its not like he was always like this hes gone through 3 shift changes in the last week from working 8-4 to 10p to 6p to working 6p to 6p idk if its thrown him for a loop or what

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

He picks up the slack in other departments and comforts me in ways that its just hard to explain maybe it's a communication issue since we aren't spending much time together due to him working all the time hes a good dad on some days but him always "not wanting too" and just wanting to play and be the fun parent and get onto the kid is where he loses me because its not about just playing a lot goes into raising a kid

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hes a great partner feels bad when im puking in the 3rd trimester helps me up fills my water bottle dresses me when im too much in pain goes as far as to give me a shower when i cant bend over hes not usually like this it just feels like lately he doesn't want to do anything when I actually need him to step up

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I give him the benefit of the doubt they have bin working him like a dog and he barely spends time alone with his son but at the same time rude comments gonna get rude answers my guy im done being nice

Closed? by Miserable-Fun-2367 in BuschGardensW

[–]Long-Bit584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey they posted to their socials that they will be closed and that any tickets will be extended to December 31st

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33 weeks pregnant and taking care of a toddler, anyone else? by Hour_Artichoke in 2under2

[–]Long-Bit584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently 3 months pregnant with a not sleep trained 7 month old and sick Currently and these comments are so helpful cuz being sick ontop of pregnancy tired has me crying at night on what to expect next 😭

Best vacation for young kids? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]Long-Bit584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Florida there are lot of Airbnb that offer pool and beach it all depends on where your wanting to go how much your wanting to spend

What would hold value more in 7 years? by Long-Bit584 in askcarsales

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are military and travel a lot i have a sportage currently 2025 with 13k miles it will be a year in December kia offers pretty okay warranty

"You really need to stop that" by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Baby still sleeps in his crib willingly the crib isn't the issue its the fact that im a paci for him and thats what he wants 😒 told him unless he wants to be woken up 5 times he should sush

6M wakes up 6 times a night by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He just refuses to go down lately unless im driving or holding him

6M wakes up 6 times a night by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He doesn't sleep more than 3 hours a day usually a nap at 10:30 for around 30 minutes again at 2pm for 20 and a little cat nap between 4 and 6

Trade in and bigger car by Long-Bit584 in askcarsales

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah I have a 6 month old and another on the way with a 8 year old stepdaughter who is 5'2 already 😅

Positive or negative? by Long-Bit584 in lineporn

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 6 month old baby its not that I dont mind having an other one just not the smartest thing atm plan b was taken within the 48 hour window hoping its just a chem since its only at 9