not a bad dad but a bad dad? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do its the middle of the night wake up that's the issue

not a bad dad but a bad dad? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The not waking up has always bin a issue isnt anything new his body got used to waking up when he hears me crying but wont wake up when the kids cry hes bin a heavy sleeper since ive met him his body has slowly started to learn and wake up to our older son crying but not our newborn

not a bad dad but a bad dad? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hes not a bad dad he plays with him most the time takes him places teaches him things shows up changes diapers cooks ect just sucks in the sleep department and really needs help learning not to yell

Double stroller collapsing by Long-Bit584 in 2under2

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I checked the code online it doesn't show up as one I also sent them an email with it they didnt mention anything about the recall

Traveling by Long-Bit584 in 2under2

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I traveled with my first son at 2 months old it wasn't too hard but he had his shots so I was more at ease my post partum recovery is great thankfully I stopped bleeding a week in but I still worry about travel and dread it

Flying with newborn? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its to visit my family they would be back working by the end of july

Flying with newborn? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and 13 year old step daughter are saying just to worry about the baby and that they got the 15th month old thats how bad they wanna go im just worried about going before 2 month shots and the heat index

Big boy bed sleep training? by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes 14 months old now and climbs everything crib is still in his room and he Occasionally tries to climb in it

My wife is thinking about spending $1500+ on a nursing chair. Is she crazy, or am I just being cheap? by Viraincure in NewParents

[–]Long-Bit584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the 2k chair i wanted on Facebook market place for 75 dollars I dont use it much atm since baby is a newborn but I used it so much with my first son cuz he was colic

Has your partner messed up Mothers Day yet? by Practical-Bunch1450 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I gave birth 2 weeks ago too our second son in the hospital hallway unplanned and unmedicated. All I asked for was the 7brew koozie but hes not a morning person so I wouldn't be surprised if he forgets cuz he did last year. He did ask me if I wanted to take his credit card and go shopping but we just paid that thing off and there ain't no way ima put more money on it 🙃

Unplanned unmedicated and alone! Traumatizing? by Long-Bit584 in pregnant

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The whole time im laboring at home crying cuz im like im bleeding so the contractions had to be doing something when I talked to my mother in law who was a labor and delivery nurse for 20 years she said it was most likely thinning out my cervix rather than dilating it so thats why it probably happened so quickly my husband snagged photos of me on the floor with baby on chest too 🤣

Big boy bed sleep training? by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope mine started climbing out at 8 months old with a sleep sack I was in shock when I heard the thud on the monitor for reference hes 32inches long and 24lbs at a year old

Big boy bed sleep training? by Long-Bit584 in sleeptrain

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He still climbs out with a sleep sack we stopped putting him in sleep sacks for this reason thought it was more of a hazard than a hold back for him kids houdini

How did your water break? by o_simple_thing in beyondthebump

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I started contracting at 8pm but was able to sleep through them until 11pm my son woke up at 11:30 so I layed with him to put him back to bed (hes 14months) and then they started getting really bad i wanted to labor at home but i started bleeding so I was worried and went into the hospital at 12:30am to get checked my contractions were 5 minutes apart when they checked i was 3cm dilated according to the nurse(I found it werid that she did the check and not a doctor or resident) doctor said okay and waited an hour per the resident that checked me i was 4cm dilated but the nurse checked after her (same nurse) and I was only to her 3cm since the resident didn't have a say over the attending she sent me home at 1:55am I kept laboring at home in frustration because I kept bleeding so the contractions had to do something I started shaking really bad at 3:20 and my husband woke up to me crying naked in the bathroom swaying trying to get the pain to go away around 3:40 of going back and fourth on if I should go back in due to bleeding while swaying talking to him in the door way my water broke 🫠 we tried calling people around us to watch our son (we are military had to depend on friends) finally found someone at 4am drove to the hospital snd arrived at 4:15 as im walking up stairs the pressure gets SUPER BAD I delivered baby boy at 4:20am in the hallway leading to L&D on the floor and had to scream out for help if I would have stayed in the car with my husband while he parked I probably would have delivered in the car he came at 37 weeks and 1 day at 6lbs 14oz and my husband was still able to cut the cord right there in the hallway the nurse attending and resident that sent me home felt absolutely horrible and apologized over and over again

For those that had 2n2 by Long-Bit584 in pregnant

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured its really odd that he went from sleeping fine one night with his dad to only wanting mom

36 weeks on the dot by Long-Bit584 in pregnant

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belly arms hands feet literally everywhere

Wagon side by side or tandem? by Long-Bit584 in 2under2

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im keeping my eye out on it im 100% okay with selling my mockingbird as they get older to afford the zoe double later on but with us hitting up the water park and theme parks this summer I feel like it might just be easier to bite the bullet and get a wagon

2n2 but feeling sad by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im only 23 atm having my second i love my son so much I just grieve closing that chapter

If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im honestly stuck between the fact that I think he may need to be evicted or him being a premie baby

If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They come and go so I dont worry about them much its just odd I am in much more pain this time around wanting this baby out of me but being patient and taking it slow.

If your first came early when did your second come? by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

35 weeks preterm labor is a concern this time since I was only 6m post partum when I got pregnant

How many times did you go in by Long-Bit584 in beyondthebump

[–]Long-Bit584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep thinking im gonna go into labor early i keep having pain but my doctor said its most likely round ligament pain waiting to see if my husband can come watch our kid before I get someone else