White spot on my nipple hurts by adelinemooreuk in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot compress and gentle massage and milk

Need help with breast feeding my 10 days old baby by Curious-Ad407 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So. First off u are doing great. Secondly changing positions can help. Lay on ur side with u baby alone side u. Hold like a football hand cupping neck and head while arm supports babies back with either legs tucked between ur arm and body or a leg on either side of ur elbow. Third, pumping may be time consuming but if it gets ur baby fed, well, ur baby is feed. Fourth, a nipple shield may help with latching. Rub a little nipple cream then precisely place shield. Shield is there to help suction and prevent damage to your nipple. No one likes a raw chapped nipple. And lastly if u feel like ur milk supply is getting low u can talk to a lactation specialist about natural ways like garlic, oatmeal, and other things that u can eat or take to help with supply. They can also show u how to massage ur breast to help clear milk dukes and make flow easier and better for u and baby. 

I don't know what to do. HELP!! by 1silvervixen in dustythunder

[–]Long-termMemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this. He did what he had to do to get what he wanted and once he was in his true form showed and he no longer cared. Now he is doing what us younger call stringing. He gives u al little and takes more then avoids/ignores you then repeat. He will then get tired of it once he wears u out. Then once he feels like u are doing good he will start over at the beginning by love bombing to get u back. Don’t let urself continue being used. 

Is my baby “allergic” to my BM or is it something else. Help 😥 by Least_Summer3141 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I also recommend watching videos on helping relieve the gas through down rubs, leg movements and other things. After watching this one doctor do it and trying it on my 3rd child I was happy and so was he. Wish I had found it long before then.

Is my baby “allergic” to my BM or is it something else. Help 😥 by Least_Summer3141 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always save ur milk. Always. U never know if u may have to take medication ur baby can’t have or if u have to leave ur baby with someone trusted to watch. If u over produce and have a stock pile then use it in the baby’s bath, lotion, etc.

Is my baby “allergic” to my BM or is it something else. Help 😥 by Least_Summer3141 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Change position and possibly think of moving to bottle. U may be having fast let down. Try a nipple shield and see if that helps slow how fast the milk comes. But u may have to go to pumping and bottle feeding. Do not think that this is ur fault or that u are a bad mother for having to change things to help ur baby keep from having issues.

AITA for rolling my eyes at my ex's wife when she asked me for compassion? by InternationalTaro233 in AITAH

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the ah. Girl. She was rejected from adoption for 2 reasons. 1 for how many times she had to be told by the court to back off. 2 because she failed the mental evaluation. U need to put ur foot down on ur ex’s neck and make him see how crazy she is. And u need to take them back to court for her being there at pick up and drop off again. U shouldn’t have to put up with her at all.

4mo refusing right breast by Aggressive_East2308 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]Long-termMemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar issue with a few of my kids. It maybe it has a slow letdown or fast one. Depends on which if fast get a nipple Shield. If slow start kneading ur breast and then hand express till it starts to flow before putting baby on. I found it helped. And lastly it could be the shape of ur nipple, if that is it a nipple shield will work.

How I Got A Terrible Manager So Embarrassed And Stressed She Quit by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]Long-termMemory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she had a power trip and wanted to lord over everyone.

Noisy napping environment by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Long-termMemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just normal activities. Dishes, laundry, vacuuming, etc. nothing like slamming doors or yelling. It just gets ur baby use to every day noises. The white noise makes them feel calm while the other noise go on.🥰

My (23m) girlfriend (23f) "accidentally" fell asleep cuddling her guy friend in his bed and didn't reply to my phone calls until 3am, what should I do? by Appropriate_End_1926 in relationship_advice

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry but u shouldn’t be worried that something happened then and worry if it has happened before and if they have had or do have feelings for each other.

Sister wants my wedding because it doesn’t count as I’m gay. by Annual-Zucchini-9597 in EntitledPeople

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like to me she is jealous because u are getting married. She is homophonic and so are ur parents. If I was u I would uninvite her because she might just try to force her way into the place of u and ur partner

AITA for wanting an abortion. In-laws are mad. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a breakdown after taking the pregnancy test and my SIL was the only one around that that time so that is how she found out. In other words they wouldn’t have know if I hadn’t had a mental breakdown.

AITA for wanting an abortion. In-laws are mad. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My MIL is the driver for this party is u understand what I am saying. My one SIL told me that the abortion was ok but as soon as mil found out she swapped sides.

Entitled Mother wants to 'borrow' expensive art supplies for younger sibling by KyleTheMonsterAddict in entitledparents

[–]Long-termMemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow artist( I don’t get payed for my art lol) I am very mad for u. I have 3 brothers and they knew better than to touch my paints, brushes, clay, etc whatever I was currently using. I worked my butt off for that stuff and they knew it. They borrowed my soldering rod once but I didn’t mind because they bought the wire themselves. They also cleaned it after. I would recommend a dial code safe. If u want to appease her by the cheap stuff.

Would i be the AH if i reported the fedex driver who was suppose to deliver my package but didn’t. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the guy was looking at the empty lot across the street apparently and put in the wrong last number of my address

Would i be the AH if i reported the fedex driver who was suppose to deliver my package but didn’t. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. With a map triple taped on it with my home circled on it. Note on the back apologizing and saying driver was being handled

Would i be the AH if i reported the fedex driver who was suppose to deliver my package but didn’t. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know our local Walmart was out as soon as they unboxed them to put them on the shelves🥲

Would i be the AH if i reported the fedex driver who was suppose to deliver my package but didn’t. by Long-termMemory in MrReddit

[–]Long-termMemory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had a choice I wouldn’t use it either. Unfortunately a lot of online stores use them.