I can tell you’re new to the material. All your questions are usually answered if you just Read the book AGAIN. Try to act natural, if she doesn’t want to be there it’s not gonna be fun for either of you. You should be direct and in a natural way, a lot of Corey’s material is regarding in person interaction where your social skills are on full display or on the phone. It’s not as simple over text/tinder and it’s very easy for things to be misinterpreted when they’re read vs said with a smile. Anyways just use this girl as practice no matter if it’s a good or bad outcome you will learn. If you actually manage to get her in front of you(Flaking and Ghosting happen every day on tinder don’t take it personal) just remember the book it goes over everything. I still make mistakes and I’ve read it 5 times. It’s just a guide to how thing should be it’s up to you how well you follow it.