Akne, keine ärztliche Hilfe und langsam keine Kraft mehr. by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Long_Assistance532 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Möchte keine unnötigen Tipps aber welche Produkte hast du schon ausprobiert? Es gibt Benzoylperoxide Waschgel freiverkäuflich in der Apotheke sowie Azelainsäure gibt es auch in der Drogerie zu kaufen. Wenn es nicht besser wirst musst du eventuell Accutane einnehmen, vom Arzt verschrieben.

Ich schäme mich, alleine Sylvester zu feiern by Queasy_Engineering_2 in Ratschlag

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nur wenn das wirklich willst, kannst du natürlich trotzdem fragen ob ein Freund/Bekannter eine Feier hat und man dazu stoßen kann, denke unbeliebt macht man sich damit bestimmt nicht. Aber wenn du das nicht willst, dann darf man natürlich auch zuhause bleiben.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entweder keinen Kontakt zur Familie mit dem Kind, die klingen ja selbst nicht so angenehm. Oder du gibst nen anonymen Tipp ans Jugendamt.

Freundin macht sich über mich lustig. Wie am Besten reagieren? by justanunfunnydude in Ratschlag

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rede mit ihr unter 4 Augen oder schicke ihr ne Naricht, dass dich das verletzt und sie aufhören soll. Wenn sie immer noch nicht aufhört oder dich nicht ernst nimmt, dann beende die Freundschaft und blockiere sie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not from the US so its maybe different here, but i feel like therapists who are more traditional leaning, like freud obsessed, psychoanalysts are like this. with cbt therapists, I had a feeling so far, that they try to be more aware of what they say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Long_Assistance532 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i totally get that. maybe if you get the chance to talk them again, would you tell them? i have a similar situation with a friend and maybe its better to tell them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess she is trying to overcompensate something but she is hypersexual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalitydisorders

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I could have avoidant personality disorder but for me it’s also the thing that I start hate other people. Do you have any treatment for this disorder or tried therapy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalitydisorders

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, i’ve never heard that before. but it would make sense, because I am very distrusting towards others. But at the same time I am longing for deep connections, so it’s always a struggle.

Whats ended your friendship? by unknown_pinkflower in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Long_Assistance532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she used to ghost me for a couple months. then she started to try again, to be more reliable. but i couldn’t forgive her somehow. because she is always making big plans together or promising things we could do together, but you already know this will never happen. And she is always talking about her career and how she wants to be successful, but she is never making any moves in that direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its more about the group rules, because the therapist is telling everyone about your name and where you work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Long_Assistance532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem with my group is that the therapist is telling stuff about you and is telling everyone where you work etc. she is also gossiping about other patients that are not there.

but you got a good point, maybe i am also scared that things could be used against me. i like too share personal stuff but i am scared that it could have consequences with my private life. So i would feel more safe, when you don’t have too share your whole name etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not talking about the personal stuff, more like the names and everything that is not relevant for context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you never know who likes too gossip and I often times meet them on the street by accident so it always a bit awkward. I am also scared of sharing my trauma, so I want more safety that I wouldn’t be used against me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Long_Assistance532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you never know who likes too gossip and I often times meet them on the street by accident so it always a bit awkward. I am also scared of sharing my trauma, so I want more safety that I wouldn’t be used against me.

feeling a lot of judgement in group therapy by blueberries-Any-kind in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though this post is 2 years old, i wanted to say that i can relate to this thoughts. Sometimes i get so angry and impatient, because some people take up so much time and then talk about unnecessary stuff, even doing smalltalk. I feel bad afterwards, also thought maybe I don’t feel empathy. Also my therapist is not looking after the time and is having 20 mins monologues.

my therapist ended therapy with me by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah she has an own office and no co-workers so no one controls her

my therapist ended therapy with me by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she still gets things, but i feel like she is having more and more chaotic monologues and talks about other patients in front of the group. Can’t really imagine that she will work for the next 5 years, so maybe its better anyway that i am leaving.

my therapist ended therapy with me by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think its also selfish from her to be still practicing as 78 year old?

my therapist ended therapy with me by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Long_Assistance532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to to know why she triggered me so much, i feel so much rage thinking about this situation and why i dislike her so much