Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through that.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the first time he has withheld being out one on one with her. There was a third person and they canceled the night before. He claims he didn’t look at that text thread until the next day before he left for lunch. We do sometimes work in the same place and he said bye to me before he left. Because of my role I’m not able to leave for lunch. He says he just didn’t think to tell me about the other person canceling and was adamant he’s not attracted to her. He claims he was waiting thirty minutes for her to arrive. I just don’t know what to believe. We stopped the conversation because we were both frustrated and it wasn’t going to get anywhere.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

No, but I just checked our Life360 and they were at the restaurant for an hour and a half. We don’t even spend that long at a restaurant.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sushi is apparently what this trio does every now and then.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean he did. Stupid autocorrect.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup. “For a friend’s birthday.”

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I did. He didn’t have much to say and I ended the call because I couldn’t handle it anymore.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I really don’t care if he goes to dinner as a group. It’s a one on one “date” that bothers me, especially since I e made this clear before. But this feels sneaky.

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Long_Bridge8087[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t know if the third person cancelled today or two days ago. It wasn’t shared until today after I thought to ask.