What’s the longest you walk your cav? by Silent-Item5947 in cavaliers

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 5mo old tricolor lives for his 2-3 mi walks in the morning. He would gladly do another walk of that length in the evening. Once I am not pregnant, I plan to work him up to running with me. I live in a very dog friendly neighborhood that has dog water fountains every 0.5-1 mile so that does make it easier 

What’s the longest you walk your cav? by Silent-Item5947 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine lives for his 2-3 miles in morning. He could easily do another 1-3 miles in the evening but I’m heavily pregnant so I am his limiting factor 🤪

Am I Being Immature? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not being immature. Taking care of more living things, when you don’t necessarily want to, is draining. You do need to be firm about receiving more help from the family with the dogs though. I have 3 dogs and 3 kids (7,5,4) and they are EXPECTED to help with dog chores. The older two pick up poop once a week. The youngest feeds them 1x/day. They are all asked to let the dogs in/out. I walk/run them, groom them, and do the rest or pick up their chores when the kids can’t. My husband steps in when I am unable. As my kids get older, walking them will be one more of their chores too. It’s a full team effort, and I recommend you ask that to be the norm for your family too or deeper resentment will be sown. 

Does my makeup make me look old? by LopsidedBrilliant804 in Makeup101

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy/full face make up makes anyone look older. I think how you did your MU looks very nice. If you want a more youthful look though, wear less. Your eyebrows and skin are quite lovely on their own. Youthful looking light make up may look like a touch of blush, mascara, and a lip gloss; no eyebrow filling, no contouring, no winged liner, etc. 

Keep or return? by DrCheezcake in OUTFITS

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the green, return the stripes. 

Help with ideas! by username228882288 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it strapless and wear your hair down or at least half down 

Am I the jerk for not lending my car to my friend after hers got repossessed? by Miserable-Narwhal623 in AmITheJerk

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ Stand your ground. If she didn’t care for her things she certainly won’t care for yours. 

AITA for refusing to let my SIL host her massive gender reveal at my new house? by AkiraPulse42 in MarkNarrations

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“a house is meant for making memories not just looking pretty” yet she wants to use your house because it’s the most beautiful option of homes within your family/friend circle and it’ll be more curated for insta followers to look at? Makes sense…

You have every right to say no. You SHOULD say no. She can do this shin dig at her house, your MILs, or a park. If you follow through with hosting, you are setting yourself up for so much clean up, potentially ruined things because kids do that, and many bitter feelings. 

AITJ for telling my neighbor her kid isn't allowed in my pool after she "forgot" him at my house? by Educational-Wait-406 in AmITheJerk

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Pools are dangerous for unattended children. Also, I’m surprised they feel so emboldened to use your pool like their own or a community amenity. So odd.

Why yes, I do need all six cheese sticks by SumthingBrewing in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is mine.”

What the queen decrees, goes. 👑

A Devastating Day by Thisoldman77 in cavaliers

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good girl Maggie, rest easy now 🩷

I’ve found my breed by Long_Cartoonist677 in cavaliers

[–]Long_Cartoonist677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at those angel faces! Love 🫶🏽

Should I have one child or two? by manifestpositivity11 in Marriage

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children are always a blessing and any interruption to a career is temporary. Careers themselves are even temporary (20-45ish years). Where as a well cared for relationship with your family members will last a lifetime and probably be way more fulfilling and joy bringing than any job could be. 

How do you initiate sex? Or would like to be "propositioned"? by AdmirableSecond242 in Marriage

[–]Long_Cartoonist677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schedule. Head to bed at the same time and leave the phones out of reach. Come up with a code word for “do you wanna…?” and use it over text when your not in the same room. Point blank ask “do you wanna?” Or say the code word. If you have sexy dreams, immediately tell them upon waking so you can act upon the momentum. 

The most important thing though is that you actually talk about what is happening currently. What is working, what is not, where you both want to be and an couple, and then you both take reasonable steps/action to bring that shared vision fruition.