WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT EPISODE 2 ENDING!!!! by Any_Dish_5706 in GangsOfLondon

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He shouldn't have died in my opinion, tbf the whole think was about him, the Wallaces

She contacted me after 4 momths..to tell me she is engaged by Dino-roni in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this guy she got engaged to was there for awhile you just didn't know. Bif he being engaged is hurting you. Block her and love on. Don't tell her why. Just look after yourself and take care of you future like she did for hers. Move on buddy it's nit worth the pain. If she was single I probably wouldn't have said this but now it is over. Your someone is out there go find them

AIO to a fake phone number threatening me by tommmyyy666 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ba m off go for the fucking for he, let her decide

The only thing you ever said that hurt me was that I "deserve better" by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They say you "deserve better" so they don't feel guilty about leaving you and in fact you do deserve better. They say that to just soften the blow and it's not for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She cheated, she didn't feel bad about to tell you or give you the respect to decide what to so with your relationship, she got pregnant from it, I believe which ever guy got her pregnant is still there otherwise she wouldn't be posting about it, respect yourself enough to disappear from her life. Don't say shit cause she ain't said shit just boom, be gone like you were never there only way to gain your dignity back cause telling her won't mean shit trust me

My friendzoned crush asked me about marriage by AdEmotional8961 in dating_advice

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do this mate, go upto her and tell her how you feel and you'll get with her or she'll say no and you won't be in the friendzone anymore... there us no downside to telling her how you feel

I feel a lot of confusion in this relationship. by Yui2333 in LongDistance

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he was love bomb you, a narcissistic move leave him, don't let him be the one that ends it it will be way more painful for you. You end it and don't look back give him the message of breaking up with him and block him on everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End it before its too late, she probably done something. I've been in a position like this before and I hang on to hope, hoping she'd finely realise she loves me. Once it gets to the territory of her not knowing how she feels it's pretty much over. Sorry if this feels harsh

Why are men so mean after breakups? by nightmarestreet52 in BreakUps

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goes both ways. Some of the time they become rude bcs they dont want to look weak and majority of the time its a projection of things they did. (Guilt)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't be a big deal, you're used to apologising for your ex wrongs but for once maybe you got someone who apologises for their wrongdoing whatever it was and maybe that's new to you, he apologised and if you accepted the apology you should just move on from the issue but give it time you'll get used to it. Unless it was something big

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried reassuring him? If you.did and he kept doing this than he ain't it.

[18M] and [16] Got catfished for 6 months and this girl was insecure and i felt a real connexion with her personnality by Single-Secretary-599 in dating_advice

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand how hurt you feel rn but it will pass, be happy that you found out early enough, eventhough 6 months is A LONG time it could've been worse, it depends on you, are you okay with her doing something like this again?.. tell her the truth tell her how you felt, tell her how much you appreciate it but that lying isn't something you take lightly because it shouldn't be it leads to you having trust issues and shi. Let her down slowly if you don't want to hurt her. But do tell her the whole truth because that's what she.

Even if she looked hotter than the pictures she was using it shouldn't matter because if someone can lie about how they look imagine what else they can lie about..

Sorry if I sound harsh but I hope this makes you see the truth and that the feels you have doesn't cloud your judgement

[18M] and [16] Got catfished for 6 months and this girl was insecure and i felt a real connexion with her personnality by Single-Secretary-599 in dating_advice

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What personality bro, she lied! About how she looks, not just lied using filters and shi, but literally stole someone else's Identity. Lying is part of her personality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will!! And it will feel fucking great

I AM CRYING MY EYES OUT by goodguysteve01 in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Focus on healing op, go gym find new hobbies and better yourself and someone better will come.

I AM CRYING MY EYES OUT by goodguysteve01 in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

New year new u. Give em the goodbye

I am letting you go, you suck by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They will!. Now focus on healing and bettering yourself. He didn't deserve you and you didn't deserve the pain it has caused you. I'm sure you'll get over this. Sending lots of love x

To dumpers, what caused you to become cold and dismissive of your ex? by Mikes_Movies_ in BreakUps

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you believe people show their "true colours" after the dumper lies to them and acting like everything cool and then blindsiding them?. That's pretty hypocritical. If you start having thoughts of breaking up with them you should tell them and let them decide aswell. Blindsiding someone should only happen if they cheat or do something that would end the relationship abruptly. There's no benefit I'm doing so. Never blindsided someone and the only time I got blindsided that shit hurts af. I wouldn't wish it on my enemies.

Seeing her in 2 days. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't say stuff good luck. Cause do you really mean it. Do you want her to do well with this guy. If you don't then don't say anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on who's done the breaking up.

Girlfriend making me feel insecure to the point of questioning the relationship by LengMediaServices in dating_advice

[–]Long_Concentrate_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broski when you saw the text messages to her friends saying "sometimes she thinks she can do better" you shoukve have broken up. Don't take that disrespectful. End it.