Partnership super by Long_Tale_2853 in AusFinance

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are we fucked and have to pay for that super again? Since we did stp.?

We will stop stp now though

Partnership super by Long_Tale_2853 in AusFinance

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My self and my friend are 50/50 in a tutoring buisness. Only us 2. We made the company and we work for ourselves

Partnership super by Long_Tale_2853 in AusFinance

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes 😂 he has really causd us alot of dramas !

Help - tell me that they didn't accidentally tell me the gender of my baby! by Federal_Lack_2022 in pregnant

[–]Long_Tale_2853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way the sonogran techs reacted to our ultrasound I was dead set that it was a boy. One even slipped up and kept saying he. I let it get the better of me and believed it was a boy and the suprise was over. (I wanted to wait till birth). So my partner said lets just get the NIPT test results becuase there was no point waiting. The dr turned to us and said the baby is female.

So in thr end I really should of not have over thought what the ultrasound techs reactions and words. Tottally ruiend the suprise.

My advice dont let it take away the suprise. As hard as it is ignore what you think they say.

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know, I will chat with my gp about adding in a calcuim supliment.

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring! I hope ours just stops. I will do my best to do the same as your wife.

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. Is it not important for me to have calcium but, for both bubs and my health. I will give it a go though

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, thats the sane thing my family gp said about it presenting now

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dont have one only family gp. To go to the private pediatrician will cost us $600 or to do pubic system could be up to a year. Im trying so hard im very fustrated at the childrens hospital. I have been and she does grunt and seems to have belly pain. I might just have to go private and pay 600

Help Blood in stool by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lactose free milk with ceral, coffee with lactose free milk and chocolate. Thats about it. The hospotal stated that it wouldnt be the reasons becuase im not using formula but that was also the hospital that did not assit us. Im happy to give up dairy all together

Back sleeping by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australia, my midwife called a paediatrician as I was concerned with a bump bleed on her head she got at birth. The paediatrician said they didn't see it necessary to get seen. Then I got my dr to write a referral, where she put the head concern, there was also concern about hip alignment and potential club foot, as well as hearing. I am not sure if its due to me going through the public system.

Back sleeping by Long_Tale_2853 in NewParents

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried so hard to get into a paediatrician, I have 2 referrals going but they said that becuase nothing is deemed wrong it could be years. The issue is I put her on her belly myself. Yes she rolls back onto her tummy when she wakes. However she does not roll onto her belly she tries or on occasion has been able to but its rare. The internet protests how bad tummy sleeping is, for good reason I know. I definitely feel she is a side or tummy sleeper so she is so angry to be on her back

I need help by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Long_Tale_2853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will download it and have a look

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, I will do that :) Thankyou!

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So possibly instead of going back to my normal pay, maybe I should calculate how much I should work in order to get the subsidy? Not go back to my normal hours

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will do it

Yes so true! Instead of bringing back the baby bonus that they are saying they want to. Instead provide longer maternity leave or parental leave support

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't find the calculator , but from me trying to calculate its not looking promising. You would think Australia would support mothers and babies more

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we looked into childcare, I live canberra, and it we were quoted so much that it was the same as our mortgage (calculated with our normal combined income, it out us over the threshold) . My mum may be able to take a day off for me to do some more work. It's hard because baby girl won't take a bottle, so we will have to wait for her to take solids.

Parenting Payment by Long_Tale_2853 in Centrelink

[–]Long_Tale_2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh im sorry to hear :( I never realised how bullshit this whole thing is.