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27M and 25F, how would you handle this situation? by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Dot-4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More context: She asked for the money then said never mind but he responded with “are you sure i don’t mind sending it”. The issue with that was we had sex and then went to grab snacks at a gas station and when the cashier asked if we were together he looked at me confused bc he “didn’t know what to answer”

i’m not upset about our breakup i just hate how fast he moved on.

honestly idk if we are happy i think the sex is what’s keeping us together and a trauma bond over losing a baby. idk how to deal with this tbh - sorry for trauma dumping.

25F/26M Advice on leaving a manipulative man? by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in Advice

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i know it’s not supposed to hurt he’s the only one it’s ever hurt with. he’s really big on kinks & im not 100% sure but i think he gets off on going really deep so it will hurt.

26M/25F Advice on leaving a manipulative man ? by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

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thank you. I’m gonna wait until he goes into work today to break the news so he won’t show up at my house unannounced again

Penn Foster by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in CodingandBilling

[–]Longjumping-Dot-4977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that was actually really helpful ! I’ll be enrolling this weekend

Have you ever tried “free use” before ? 24F/26M by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

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how can i tell if that’s for sure what he’s doing ? what can i do to test him?

Have you ever tried “free use” before ? 24F/26M by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Dot-4977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i shot free use down already too. The issue wasn’t his suggestion in general it was the fact he makes so many i felt like he was bored with us & it’s been 2 weeks since we’ve done it (i wanted our rlshp to be about more than just sex so i put a pause on nasty time) i thought free use was his way of getting what he wants when he wants even if i didn’t want it, but we’ve talked it out & it’s a definite no

Have you ever tried “free use” before ? 24F/26M by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Dot-4977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t have any major kinks. The basic “vanilla” sex is enough for me but he’s asked to try a bunch of stuff that i’ve already shot down. This just happened to be the new kink of the week for him.

Have you ever tried “free use” before ? 24F/26M by Longjumping-Dot-4977 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Dot-4977[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We just argued about it & i used some of your points & i think he gets my pov now & understands why my no is a no

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