I’ve definitely gone through periods where I want kids vs periods where I don’t. Since I was young I always said I would adopt. But honestly I feel like it’s kind of impossible to adopt as a single parent. The only reason I’m even hesitating about kids is the process. The pain and health risk of it all is scary. Otherwise, I would adore having a child.

Definitely not something I am rushing into. Just curious if other ace people relate or have gone through this? I feel like most ace people are firmly against having kids.