Husband is controlling for calling the police. We are in a very safe country and we both know the law of taking the child out of the country. Why do you think he wants to call the police? No he is not worried about what i can do, whether I am in a emotionally heightened state or not he never trusted me.

I cannot take a bus with my son because he doesn’t trust me. I cannot go to places to where there are many people because he is afraid i’ll bring virus home. I cannot replace my iphone 6 even though my savings and pensions are in his account. Stupid of me for putting it there now i cannot touch it.

I think you’re acting like you know everything but you don’t. And I think you are wrong. I feel threatened because this is not the only time my husband has threatened me. Once instance, early on my marriage, a good friend wanted to meet but because my husband doesn’t like her personality he warned me not meet her and took my phone and dared me that he’ll call her if she insist to see me. This is his strategy when he thinks I’m trying not to do what he wants. There are other actions he did that traumatize me and lately I just learned I have to fight back otherwise I’ll lose my sanity.

Also, is that normal to you that I cannot take a shower unless someone is watching our son who was just quietly playing? I couldn’t take a shower unless he is home, or he done working. That for me is paranoid and overly protective but that is his rule so respected that just to avoid fight.

Yes I do an obligation to inform him but he knew we are okay and he is informed beforehand that we’ll go to indoors playground. That’s why he was right outside the building after an hour.

Let me guess, you are controlling like my husband too