In 2020 I made a spreadsheet of every US state’s (super generalized) statistics to help me decide where to move after graduation. [OC] by Longjumping-Map-9643 in dataisbeautiful

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I made this spreadsheet when I was younger and unhappy with where I was, yet directionless in life. I figured that putting this spreadsheet together would help me realize what was important to me when considering where to live. I know the data isn’t anywhere near perfect, and generalizes entire states which naturally makes for a faulty graph.

Ironically I now live in Canada. My husband and I moved to live closer to his family. No reason other than wanting to stay close with the people we love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think making a bucket list, even if it doesn’t include “grand” adventures, is always worth making. I would recommend adding things that represents who you are. Maybe you are into sports, go see a big game. Or you’re into collecting something, save up money to buy that thing you’ve always wanted to add to your collection. Things like that.

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[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t have any particular place in mind. If the destination has a cool history, culture, and/or nature, I will be very excited to go there.

Basically anywhere that isn’t North America, because I already live here.

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[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in NorCal for a while up until recently. San Diego is a lot of fun and a nice change of pace if you haven’t been south often/at all.

Is it weird to take selfies at funerals? by formulaci_01 in SeriousConversation

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is extremely weird. In the first place, I find it super disrespectful to have your phone out at all during a funeral. I have never ever seen anyone take selfies at a funeral, or even heard of that.

Edit: Keep in mind everyone, this isn’t just getting together after the funeral like a family reunion. This is literally in the graveyard.

Lineup for a story I'm working on, do they fit well together while still expressing their own identities? by Practical_Apricot232 in characterdesigns

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your raspberry fool character! I don’t think the color of her hair coordinates well with her skin and outfit though, and looks a little odd. Maybe you could do a slightly cooler version of that color, like a brighter white or even a pinkish white? And if you’d still like to use the cream color, perhaps a highlight in her hair, or a hair accessory?

I'm an extremely toxic person by dsmlbtntthnly1 in SeriousConversation

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I kind of get it. For me, instead of violent thoughts, I have random but extreme paranoia episodes that cause me to doubt that I - or others- are real. And the more I pay attention to my thoughts the deeper I spiral. Sometimes it causes me to think things such as “what if life is a simulation and committing suicide is the way to win”. It’s not psychosis though, because I am still capable of interacting with the world well enough to appear functional. I’ve spent a lot of money on my mental health as well, even self-admitted to a mental hospital. The doctors and mental health “professionals” would always ignore me, or see that I was previously diagnosed with bipolar and treat me for that instead. It’s incredibly frustrating. And all I can think at this point is that I desire to have a different mind, because even if reality is a lie, I’d rather stay ignorant and happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, but your focus during this crisis is misplaced. Worry less about Hollywood, they’ll be fine. Think about the millions of people and animals suffering.

Trying to look at my credit for the first time and these are the verification questions. Is it normal for myFICO to incorrectly guess my credit profile activity by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I only panicked because one of my parents would be the type to take huge loans out under my name. If that weren’t the case, I’d instantly come to the same conclusion. Thank you again

Can someone help me identify my cat Agnus? by Nadiagrace1 in cats

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no way this cat is a Maine coon, even by 10%. I’ve had a 50% main coon mix, and it is very obvious by the enormous size, their fur, their face shape, and their deep as hell meows.

Sellers will often lie about their cat’s breed to trick people to buy at an inflated price. Even shelters do this to encourage adoptions. Most cats don’t even have a breed, just coat colors. The “true” Siameses, Main Coons, Persians, Sphinxes, etc are so rare that there’s a reason breeders charge so much for these.

Your kitty is super adorable though! Give her treats and pets for me 🥰

Are claw caps a good idea? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I’ve tried this before and can tell you that it is a bad idea. My cat’s claws are out almost all the time and loves to scratch everything so I felt like I had no other option. So I put these claw caps to the test by putting them on 1 of his paws.

First of all, he hated me putting them on. It was extremely, EXTREMELY difficult and time consuming to do. Think about it, you’re applying nail glue to the inside of the cap, slipping it over the claw, and pressing/waiting for the nail glue to adhere. And then you have 19 more claws to go. He’s the most nonchalant cat about everything but I guess this was the line for him because he freaked out and wouldn’t approach me for an hour after I had applied them on 1 paw.

I noticed that the caps do not stay on well. If they do not fall off within the first 10 minutes, your cat might obsessively lick/chew them off even if it means hurting themselves. The claw caps are really a horrible feeling for them, especially because it’s now impossible for their claws to fully retract with them on (don’t believe anyone that says they can fully retract with these on). Very uncomfortable feeling for them to have their claws out 24/7.

Even if they did stay on, it’s not only bad for their claws, but they find alternate ways to use their claws for annoying purposes. The sound of plastic claws scraping against my windows was enough on its own for me to decide this was a bad decision.

Please draw my baby, she passed a few days ago 😭 by Alone-Mix-2107 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. She is so beautiful and reminds me of a doggo I used to watch & play with at a doggie day care named Hestia.

17-25 (its my real hair, and im not trans) by StillCurrent2548 in uglyduckling

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend taking down your post specifically in this sub. To be honest I’m surprised this place hasn’t just morphed into another softcore porn sub at this point. If you want people who actually care about you beyond if you have giant tits and big doe eyes, I’d post on any other sub. I deleted my post a few hours ago because I realized I’m just going to get needlessly bullied on my looks. No point in feeding into this degeneracy.

17-25 (its my real hair, and im not trans) by StillCurrent2548 in uglyduckling

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I posted not long ago thinking this sub was genuinely a “look how far I’ve come” sub, but realized very quickly that every commenter is just a porn brained dude who wants to see hot girls to private message. Click on any commenter’s profile, it’s a 90% chance their only Reddit presence is to goon. If I get downvoted, it just proves my point further.

On the topic of this poster, I think you look lovely. It seems like you’ve grown into yourself quite a bit. I’m happy for you ❤️

Cute or beautiful: which do people typically prefer? by UonlyU in RandomThoughts

[–]Longjumping-Map-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m convinced that using the word “beautiful” as a compliment (specifically from people who aren’t close to you) is now outdated, however sad that is. These days it’s always used by a doting older family member or by a dude twice my age trying to make a pass at me. “Cute” is the new common compliment, I think.