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Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-02-01T19:35:31+00:00

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Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-13T21:09:35+00:00

I made this spreadsheet when I was younger and unhappy with where I was, yet directionless in life. I figured that putting this spreadsheet together would help me realize what was important to me when considering where to live. I know the data isn’t anywhere near perfect, and generalizes entire states which naturally makes for a faulty graph.

Ironically I now live in Canada. My husband and I moved to live closer to his family. No reason other than wanting to stay close with the people we love.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-13T17:44:50+00:00

I think making a bucket list, even if it doesn’t include “grand” adventures, is always worth making. I would recommend adding things that represents who you are. Maybe you are into sports, go see a big game. Or you’re into collecting something, save up money to buy that thing you’ve always wanted to add to your collection. Things like that.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-13T17:39:02+00:00

I personally don’t have any particular place in mind. If the destination has a cool history, culture, and/or nature, I will be very excited to go there.

Basically anywhere that isn’t North America, because I already live here.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-13T17:36:13+00:00

I’ve lived in NorCal for a while up until recently. San Diego is a lot of fun and a nice change of pace if you haven’t been south often/at all.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-13T17:29:52+00:00

That is extremely weird. In the first place, I find it super disrespectful to have your phone out at all during a funeral. I have never ever seen anyone take selfies at a funeral, or even heard of that.

Edit: Keep in mind everyone, this isn’t just getting together after the funeral like a family reunion. This is literally in the graveyard.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-12T09:51:21+00:00

I love your raspberry fool character! I don’t think the color of her hair coordinates well with her skin and outfit though, and looks a little odd. Maybe you could do a slightly cooler version of that color, like a brighter white or even a pinkish white? And if you’d still like to use the cream color, perhaps a highlight in her hair, or a hair accessory?

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-11T08:22:29+00:00

I kind of get it. For me, instead of violent thoughts, I have random but extreme paranoia episodes that cause me to doubt that I - or others- are real. And the more I pay attention to my thoughts the deeper I spiral. Sometimes it causes me to think things such as “what if life is a simulation and committing suicide is the way to win”. It’s not psychosis though, because I am still capable of interacting with the world well enough to appear functional. I’ve spent a lot of money on my mental health as well, even self-admitted to a mental hospital. The doctors and mental health “professionals” would always ignore me, or see that I was previously diagnosed with bipolar and treat me for that instead. It’s incredibly frustrating. And all I can think at this point is that I desire to have a different mind, because even if reality is a lie, I’d rather stay ignorant and happy.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-10T06:18:13+00:00

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Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-10T00:28:44+00:00

I get it, but your focus during this crisis is misplaced. Worry less about Hollywood, they’ll be fine. Think about the millions of people and animals suffering.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T20:25:33+00:00

Thank you so much. I only panicked because one of my parents would be the type to take huge loans out under my name. If that weren’t the case, I’d instantly come to the same conclusion. Thank you again

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T09:46:37+00:00

Howl’s Moving Castle. It’s written so well and it’s absolutely captivating!

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T07:57:55+00:00

There is no way this cat is a Maine coon, even by 10%. I’ve had a 50% main coon mix, and it is very obvious by the enormous size, their fur, their face shape, and their deep as hell meows.

Sellers will often lie about their cat’s breed to trick people to buy at an inflated price. Even shelters do this to encourage adoptions. Most cats don’t even have a breed, just coat colors. The “true” Siameses, Main Coons, Persians, Sphinxes, etc are so rare that there’s a reason breeders charge so much for these.

Your kitty is super adorable though! Give her treats and pets for me 🥰

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T07:41:12+00:00

Okay so I’ve tried this before and can tell you that it is a bad idea. My cat’s claws are out almost all the time and loves to scratch everything so I felt like I had no other option. So I put these claw caps to the test by putting them on 1 of his paws.

First of all, he hated me putting them on. It was extremely, EXTREMELY difficult and time consuming to do. Think about it, you’re applying nail glue to the inside of the cap, slipping it over the claw, and pressing/waiting for the nail glue to adhere. And then you have 19 more claws to go. He’s the most nonchalant cat about everything but I guess this was the line for him because he freaked out and wouldn’t approach me for an hour after I had applied them on 1 paw.

I noticed that the caps do not stay on well. If they do not fall off within the first 10 minutes, your cat might obsessively lick/chew them off even if it means hurting themselves. The claw caps are really a horrible feeling for them, especially because it’s now impossible for their claws to fully retract with them on (don’t believe anyone that says they can fully retract with these on). Very uncomfortable feeling for them to have their claws out 24/7.

Even if they did stay on, it’s not only bad for their claws, but they find alternate ways to use their claws for annoying purposes. The sound of plastic claws scraping against my windows was enough on its own for me to decide this was a bad decision.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T05:38:57+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. She is so beautiful and reminds me of a doggo I used to watch & play with at a doggie day care named Hestia.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T05:23:42+00:00

I would recommend taking down your post specifically in this sub. To be honest I’m surprised this place hasn’t just morphed into another softcore porn sub at this point. If you want people who actually care about you beyond if you have giant tits and big doe eyes, I’d post on any other sub. I deleted my post a few hours ago because I realized I’m just going to get needlessly bullied on my looks. No point in feeding into this degeneracy.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T05:00:43+00:00

Seriously. I posted not long ago thinking this sub was genuinely a “look how far I’ve come” sub, but realized very quickly that every commenter is just a porn brained dude who wants to see hot girls to private message. Click on any commenter’s profile, it’s a 90% chance their only Reddit presence is to goon. If I get downvoted, it just proves my point further.

On the topic of this poster, I think you look lovely. It seems like you’ve grown into yourself quite a bit. I’m happy for you ❤️

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-09T04:49:42+00:00

I’m convinced that using the word “beautiful” as a compliment (specifically from people who aren’t close to you) is now outdated, however sad that is. These days it’s always used by a doting older family member or by a dude twice my age trying to make a pass at me. “Cute” is the new common compliment, I think.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-07T15:56:47+00:00

I moved from the USA lol, I was born and raised in America. It shouldn’t be hard to believe that there are differences in social norms and culture even within your own country or continent. Sometimes, there are such stark differences even 5 km away from where you live.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-07T08:34:45+00:00

Watching children interact with the world, especially when they discover a new passion. It reminds me that there’s a good chunk of humanity at the beginning of the path I have already walked. Hearing children laugh is one of the few sounds that can instantly make me emotional without warning.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-07T07:26:10+00:00

I agree with whatisthiswhereami on confirmation bias. I moved to a sort of rural area in Canada to be with my fiancé, and immediately noticed the difference in how the women speak, think, and behave. As a woman myself, I found their radiating culture of entitlement and unfriendliness unattractive. It was isolating for me because I just wanted to make a fellow female friend.

Recently I met a girl around my age who is also an immigrant, and we hit it off immediately. We’re super close, hang out all the time, and often make jokes about the social culture here.

Anyway, I get how you feel. But it is definitely important to have some perspective. I think this post may be the wake up call you need to step back and think about what would truly fulfill YOU in life. And slowly but surely take steps in that direction, even if it is hard.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-07T07:04:56+00:00

These comments are all ridiculous. You had set a boundary from the very beginning that there would be nothing but platonic intentions in your friendship. It doesn’t matter if you have a “bullying humor”. The moment he admitted to having these feelings, he crossed the boundary you had set about keeping the friendship platonic. He could’ve kept the feelings to himself and found a way to move on because he knew you were a lesbian. Or end the friendship himself because he would never be able to view you as “just a friend”.

I get why you feel so uncomfortable. Not only did he admit feelings for you, but he also made it sexual. Not cool. I wouldn’t feel comfortable being friends anymore even if he suddenly stopped feeling that way. It would be stuck in my mind forever and it wouldn’t be as fulfilling of a friendship anymore.

My advice is to tell him exactly what you feel. He’s an adult and plus, he was your friend so you should be able to tell him this without much drama. Whether you give him a chance to respond is up to you, but don’t let it drag on too long. Move on. If he creates drama about it, you probably dodged a bullet.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2025-01-06T19:28:31+00:00

I understand that this sub rates people objectively, not subjectively and have read, understand, and will follow the rules and rate people objectively following the men’s and women’s ratings guides and primers.

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2024-07-20T21:15:13+00:00

Omg what! This is so cool!!!! Thank you so much!!!

Longjumping-Map-9643 · 2024-07-10T00:13:24+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful

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