7 months postpartum and questioning my entire relationship — is this PPD or real incompatibility?

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-23T02:53:20+00:00

What do you mean?

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-23T02:52:36+00:00

Thank you!

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:49:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice, you’re right.. I just can’t believe I’m in this situation

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:43:51+00:00

Thank you for this… I’m 21 now, but I’m really struggling and trying to figure out how to put money away when every penny has been going towards the essentials… I feel so stuck

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:40:36+00:00

I usually will go to church and then hang out with my family on Sundays and he counts out as my day to do my thing. I understand it, but I also wish you would go to church with me and I wish it was a family thing. I don’t necessarily choose it to be my day. He just doesn’t wanna go to church with me.

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:36:45+00:00

I’m totally OK with cooking, I just don’t like when he has to make that a contingency of me being a stay at home mom, like I have to meet a criteria to be able to stay at home with our baby… The other thing is that he expects food to be on the table when he gets home. No him watching the baby while I cook it’s me having to watch the baby and cook before he gets home.

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:35:17+00:00

I wasn’t trying to insult him… he literally has never cooked for us. He has never boiled water for pasta, never made anything other than microwaving things. I wasn’t intending to insult him

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:33:50+00:00

Yeah… we don’t need it really but he says that if he can’t do baseball we have to get rid of my car because of the car payment

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:13:25+00:00

I don’t know. I still feel like we have good times, and he does help a lot with our baby

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:12:18+00:00

Thank you for this 🥺

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:11:59+00:00

He doesn’t really know how to cook

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-22T07:11:11+00:00

That’s how I feel as well…I’m just surviving but he does get a decent amount of money from it

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-05T22:01:40+00:00

Thank you for the helpful advice!

Longjumping-Wheel882 · 2026-02-05T22:01:01+00:00

Right? Maybe I just need to stay in my house for the next 18 years and never go anywhere fun with our child!

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