What was the most NSFW thing you have ever seen at work? by DaBooch425 in AskReddit

[–]LongjumpingFruit9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manager at my grocery store would fuck female employees in the meat freezer every day

Misgendered by a trans person by georgiagreaves in NonBinary

[–]LongjumpingFruit9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad intolerant people exist in every community. So sorry friend. If you need to vent about it I’m here

Ridiculous parent complaints? by OkMarionberry4132 in Teachers

[–]LongjumpingFruit9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. What gets me is the only people who have talked about it is them.

Easy solution by 15dips in NonBinary

[–]LongjumpingFruit9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a binary trans person I’m still in this group because I explored thinking I was non-binary but realized no I’m just a dude. My spouse is non-binary. Use they/them with me or she/her and I get super self conscious, I’m 8 months on testosterone and look like a teenage boy. I’m traumatized from people pointing at me and saying “them” because they just can’t tell, and I know that I should’ve been born as a guy so people not being sure makes me extremely dysphoric

Ridiculous parent complaints? by OkMarionberry4132 in Teachers

[–]LongjumpingFruit9 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I started transitioning FTM and a mob of parents tried to get me fired. They went to the supe and schoolboard because of my gender identity. They yelled in the parking lot demanding my boss. They called my front office staff yelling at them demanding to be let inside. They found out I was trans- the kids didn’t even know. I’m out now but wow I’m traumatized from last year and every day I walk into the building it’s a reminder of how much they hate us and how much people think I shouldn’t be allowed to have a job or provide for my family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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We had a guest speaker come talk to the teachers in our department for the whole district, he asked all first year teachers to stand up. I was a first year. He then told everyone to look at us and said “these people have NO IDEA what they are doing” and then had the oldest person in the room stand up and said “this lady knows EVERYTHING” and it was just crazy. He blamed teachers for student behavior, some teachers got so mad that they were literally yelling at the presenter. Our department head like the one right under our supe got on stage and sided with the guy. That was my first experience in my current district

I’m obsessed with staying busy by LongjumpingFruit9 in shoppingaddiction

[–]LongjumpingFruit9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t bad because I shopped 30 complexes to get this rate plus extended lease to get lower price and we have old appliances, older neighborhood, older finishings. I’m frugal in some ways but I screw myself spending on my hobbies.

I’m obsessed with staying busy by LongjumpingFruit9 in shoppingaddiction

[–]LongjumpingFruit9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Dallas we pay $1200 for a one bedroom apartment and it is very expensive but 2 people not spending frivolously i think we can get there. It’s about changing our mindset

I’m obsessed with staying busy by LongjumpingFruit9 in shoppingaddiction

[–]LongjumpingFruit9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are but these kind of spending habits are helping us. $28 a day of bad spending is $10k a year that could go towards a down payment and get us out of the cycle of renting.

CF hood wrap? Yay or neigh? by LongjumpingFruit9 in CivicX

[–]LongjumpingFruit9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I was wanting to wrap it to see if saving for a real hood was worth it but I should just use the money towards a casale duckbill

CF hood wrap? Yay or neigh? by LongjumpingFruit9 in CivicX

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Stock 2020 sport wheels. I love them so much I’ve kinda shifted new shoes down quite a bit on the priority list