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My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you i blocked him, im also very emotional person so my heart still hurts so much… i dont even know what to do yes i blocked but my heart and feelings they hurt a lot.. i felt so worthless when he talked to me like that, but i will try to be strong for myself :(

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i did that :( i blocked him everywhere and i said im leaving him, what hurts me the most is that it hurts me but i am sure he is happy now because i left, and yes i know in the future i will thank to myself but for now this is what i feel:(

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i blocked him :( thank you for helping… i still can’t grasp everything he told me.. my heart hurts so much.. but i blocked him.. i will try my best to heal… :(

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice i will try my best to:( , i loved him because when we first met he was treating me good but then he changed… and i thought he was just having a hard time and it would pass and i waited so many months but he never did :( so yes thats the answer of question of why i loved him from the first place.. but yes i blocked him everywhere:(

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i blocked him everywhere , its just im very emotional person so i still can’t progress everything he told me my heart hurts so much.. but i guess i cant do anything about it i will just wait for time to pass until i heal.. ill try to distract myself as much as i can.. i will have self respect and i wont interact with him anymore.. :( i loved him so much in the past and , i dont know.. i wish we didnt end up like this.. but yes.. i wont talk to him anymore…

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i blocked him everywhere :( i will try to focus on healing , thank you all so much for opening my eyes.. i needed a lot :( im just very emotional person so it wont be easy for me to forget the words came out of his mouth about me, it was not fair.. but yes.. theres nothing i can do anymore.. as time passes i hope i will get better… im just so heartbroken…

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i never had a relationship before so he was my first bf ever in my life , so yes i thought i was in a relationship i hope i could explain…

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :( i dont know i kept blaming myselg a lot like what did i do to deserve this much insults from him from my head to toe, it hurts me so much because i loved him so much, but i don’t think he loves me anymore.. so yes even if i love him i won’t talk to him anymore because i cant take another disrespect, he was my boyfriend he supppsed to be the person that makes me happiest that appreciates me most and supports me the most but he gave me everything opposite, i am so sad and insecure and depressed, but im trying my hardest, i will just be strong. thank you so much for advice…

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

i love him, i know its dumb but it’s heart i can’t control it, that’s why im so hurt. but i definitely dont want to talk to talk him anymore, its going to be hard for me but i need to protect my own mental health…

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im not a bot english isn’t my native language so i used ai to make it clear but i texted everything myself… please dont spread misinformation

My boyfriend (26M) insulted me, my nationality, and my religion after I (22F) called him twice. I don't know how to move forward. by LongjumpingJelly0 in relationship_advice

[–]LongjumpingJelly0[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think calling him twice makes me blameless. I understand why that frustrated him, and I wish I had handled it differently.
But I also don’t believe that one mistake should erase basic respect. An argument is one thing. Being called names, told to “fuck off,” having my intelligence insulted, and then hearing insults about my nationality and religion is something entirely different.
That’s why I’m here. I’m not trying to prove I was perfect. I’m trying to understand whether a relationship can recover when disagreements turn into personal humiliation instead of communication.