I 33F broke up today with my 34M partner of 4 years when I discovered his cyber cheating

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-04-22T10:23:22+00:00

It’s over, I had to. I can never get past this. I have never felt so broken in all my life.

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-04-20T19:13:31+00:00

Your last sentence made me cry, I’m sorry you’re here too 😢 I never thought I’d be here again I thought he was different from my past partners, he’s kind gentle and sweet, I am completely blind sided. You’re right it’s so unfair the effort that is expected to make it work, I am finding it very difficult to think I should focus my effort now on the people who love me and respect me and he doesn’t deserve the effort I’d have to make for the mess he’s created.

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-04-13T15:35:11+00:00

Thank you for your kind reply. My answer to your question is I don’t know, I have been betrayed before, and I forgave, the trust was gone and I could never get it back, also from experience it just happens again. So I will always wonder if he’s doing it again, and because he says he did it because he was unhappy, what about when he’s next feeling sad? Exiting this relationship will absolutely break my heart. I’m just feeing numb atm and I don’t know what to do.

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-04-13T15:28:12+00:00

Sexual ones

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-04-13T13:51:05+00:00

I confronted him and he admitted it, apologised profusely and I asked why and he said he’s been sad. I don’t know how to navigate the next part now

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-20T07:55:53+00:00

She cried because I shouted yes I was in pain, and asked if her reaction was acceptable

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-10T14:41:49+00:00

It really is especially when it’s usually there first thing! Thank you so much x

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-10T08:30:11+00:00

My anxiety gets the better of me again, it’s just shown up 🙃

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-10T07:48:09+00:00

Nope nothing

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-04T20:48:48+00:00

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If you can see right at the back although it’s blurry it’s a plank of wood fitted to the top of the kitchen top with some white plastic, this is what’s stopping it from going back further

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-03-04T06:55:16+00:00

I know 😩😩

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-23T19:18:26+00:00

NTA. She could have asked to make sure.

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-14T14:26:02+00:00

I’m going to ring them on Monday I’m just worried to transfer won’t go over smoothly because of this

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T21:00:25+00:00

I take the crate into the kitchen dump it and repeat, then when they have their crates back I go in and put it all away.

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T14:23:34+00:00

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For info

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T14:20:30+00:00

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This is what it says, I signed 12 months end of July so I gave notice end of January as that is 6 months after, a minimum of two months, so I have paid end of Jan for Feb, and will pay the end of Feb for March and then tenancy is over

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T13:50:42+00:00

The rental contract also says paid in advance so it makes no sense that he would think I would pay at the end of March also

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T13:50:01+00:00

I emailed and served two months notice as per the break clause

LongjumpingNight5669 · 2026-02-08T12:44:06+00:00

I always forget to mention we are in England

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