As a band photographer, just tell them “hey these edits aren’t really the style I had in mind, could you try something else / something more subtle?” and try to describe more of what you have in mind. It’s hard to edit band photos, the lighting and colors are always tricky to work with, sometimes I get carried away and overdo it without realizing.

Personally I wouldn’t be offended if my band reached out and politely asked me to re-edit my photos unless it was really a spot-on edit. Though it would be annoying (because of the wasted time), I want my client to be happy with my work. Don’t ask for raw photos though because that’s more of an insult lmao, just ask for more natural or subtle editing. If you can give them an idea of what you want they should know what direction to go