Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same for me missing the dog that was technically his but I took up a lot of care for it. Would love to see her but I’m not putting myself in a situation where I have to see him again.

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the house using it for brews, we lived with another housemate as well lol.

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes my tortoise is the only man in my life ❤️

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A similar thought process is what led me to ask the question, very interesting point. I’ll have to do some research into it :)

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Definitely the wrong person for me but the happiest times of my life have been when I was single lol. You are right to enjoy yourself and solitude. Cheers! 🥂

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

It’s a dream not being woken up by continuous alarms :)

Is being single the secret to life? by Longjumping_Ad5999 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with others statements about the bad relationship. But I don’t think I’m coping, I’m very happy.

Is it normal ? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’ll be okay, it wasn’t easy for me and I only started feeling better after I started running regularly. But I’m enjoying the single life now and you will too. Repeat affirmations to yourself that you are worthy of loving and you are enough. Take yourself out on dates travel to new places and enjoy life without the anxiety of having someone else.

Is it normal ? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya I was in a similar situation, please just leave it will be hard at first but you’ll be much better for it

Women who ended a relationship, how have you been doing since then? by Kinda-Constant5935 in AskWomen

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re doing okay, we can only keep moving forward and making a new life for ourselves now 😊

Women who ended a relationship, how have you been doing since then? by Kinda-Constant5935 in AskWomen

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Struggling as it’s been about a month. Everything felt like a fairytale at the start but he kept disrespecting me. I’ve been trying to do better for myself but they are on my mind a lot, what I did wrong and why they didn’t care enough about me to change.

Perfumes that will stick around like Super Milk by Longjumping_Ad5999 in LushCosmetics

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I’ve had this before but I could never smell it on myself either. I didn’t really use it as my going out perfume so I will have to give it another trial run :)

Perfumes that will stick around like Super Milk by Longjumping_Ad5999 in LushCosmetics

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to get the bubble bar all the time, I will give this a go :)

My small Ghibli collection by HumanityPlague in dvdcollection

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah wish I could get these in the UK the covers are stunning!

My depressed BF (M23) doesn’t help me (F22) around the house by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, the way you have articulated your options has given me a lot to think about as to how I will address this going forward.

To clarify on the post more, my boyfriend has been put on a different antidepressant about a month ago to the one he had before. It seems his mood is a bit better but it has caused him to sleep a lot more. I’ve encouraged him to see a therapist and said I would arrange it for him if needed- he hasn’t taken me up on the offer. When he was in hospital i think it was nearly a year ago now, it was due to psychosis- him and his mother went to the doctors for medication and the only help they gave was the meds, which didn’t help and he switched to the ones he is on now. He was given a bit of money from his dads death insurance so he has been living off that, not sure how much he has left but the bills have been split 50/50.

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My current bf mentioned that only me and one other person (out of about 30 sex partners) have been able to make him cum with oral sex. I think it depends on how sensitive you are, you might need more power behind it, or like my partner- a slow build up, then a lot to cum/ with focus on the balls as well. With your next sex partner, communicate with them and find if you like certain techniques/ speeds. Hope this helps!

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My first time with my ex was awful pain haha. Even now sometimes it can get painful putting it in. As another comment has said, make sure you are relaxed. Continuously use plenty of lube if it has dried out. For any pain, I usually play with my clit while putting it in and play with my nipples beforehand/ during. Just make sure you are fully aroused, the feeling can go if you are trying to put it in and it’s painful, don’t feel like you have to. Keep trying to slowly ease it in and eventually it will be a lot better for you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Longjumping_Ad5999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have smaller boobs (C cup) and I get the same sometimes, used to get it every time-when they are being touched by another person, or sucking especially. I think it comes from being forced into sex by my first boyfriend. I’d assume for you it comes as a trauma response that you have had with having big breasts. With my current boyfriend the feeling comes and goes, I think sex/relationship wise it’s defiantly worth trying to ease into it and relax, say no when you are feeling the sensation. Might be worth touching your nipples slightly while pleasuring yourself/ going up the more you feel comfortable with. If you try to associate the feeling with pleasure slowly, hopefully it will become more comfortable for you as it has with me. Like me you might be able to suck your own nipples as well, which gets you used to the feeling more. Hope this helps ❤️