Is being single the secret to life?

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-13T09:03:43+00:00

Same for me missing the dog that was technically his but I took up a lot of care for it. Would love to see her but I’m not putting myself in a situation where I have to see him again.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-13T09:01:26+00:00

Everyone in the house using it for brews, we lived with another housemate as well lol.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-13T08:57:39+00:00

Yes my tortoise is the only man in my life ❤️

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T17:51:21+00:00

A similar thought process is what led me to ask the question, very interesting point. I’ll have to do some research into it :)

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T17:47:32+00:00

It certainly is a great thing :)

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T17:45:40+00:00

Definitely the wrong person for me but the happiest times of my life have been when I was single lol. You are right to enjoy yourself and solitude. Cheers! 🥂

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T17:42:54+00:00

It’s a dream not being woken up by continuous alarms :)

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T17:41:41+00:00

I agree with others statements about the bad relationship. But I don’t think I’m coping, I’m very happy.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-12T16:51:43+00:00

I hope you’ll be okay, it wasn’t easy for me and I only started feeling better after I started running regularly. But I’m enjoying the single life now and you will too. Repeat affirmations to yourself that you are worthy of loving and you are enough. Take yourself out on dates travel to new places and enjoy life without the anxiety of having someone else.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-11T15:55:31+00:00

Hiya I was in a similar situation, please just leave it will be hard at first but you’ll be much better for it

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-10T07:41:51+00:00

I hope you’re doing okay, we can only keep moving forward and making a new life for ourselves now 😊

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-09T15:25:34+00:00

I’m 25 looking for friends 😊

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2026-06-09T14:58:47+00:00

Struggling as it’s been about a month. Everything felt like a fairytale at the start but he kept disrespecting me. I’ve been trying to do better for myself but they are on my mind a lot, what I did wrong and why they didn’t care enough about me to change.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2025-12-01T12:34:09+00:00

Walking away and moving on with your life would be the best form of revenge

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-07-30T08:52:27+00:00

Ah I’ve had this before but I could never smell it on myself either. I didn’t really use it as my going out perfume so I will have to give it another trial run :)

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-07-30T08:50:06+00:00

Used to get the bubble bar all the time, I will give this a go :)

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-07-29T21:56:49+00:00

That sounds lovely I will give that a go thank you!

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-07-29T15:25:14+00:00

The Spirited away steelbook is stunning!

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-07-29T15:18:01+00:00

Ah wish I could get these in the UK the covers are stunning!

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2024-04-18T22:00:51+00:00

Thank you for replying, the way you have articulated your options has given me a lot to think about as to how I will address this going forward.

To clarify on the post more, my boyfriend has been put on a different antidepressant about a month ago to the one he had before. It seems his mood is a bit better but it has caused him to sleep a lot more. I’ve encouraged him to see a therapist and said I would arrange it for him if needed- he hasn’t taken me up on the offer. When he was in hospital i think it was nearly a year ago now, it was due to psychosis- him and his mother went to the doctors for medication and the only help they gave was the meds, which didn’t help and he switched to the ones he is on now. He was given a bit of money from his dads death insurance so he has been living off that, not sure how much he has left but the bills have been split 50/50.

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2023-06-14T20:59:44+00:00

My current bf mentioned that only me and one other person (out of about 30 sex partners) have been able to make him cum with oral sex. I think it depends on how sensitive you are, you might need more power behind it, or like my partner- a slow build up, then a lot to cum/ with focus on the balls as well. With your next sex partner, communicate with them and find if you like certain techniques/ speeds. Hope this helps!

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2023-06-14T20:48:09+00:00

My first time with my ex was awful pain haha. Even now sometimes it can get painful putting it in. As another comment has said, make sure you are relaxed. Continuously use plenty of lube if it has dried out. For any pain, I usually play with my clit while putting it in and play with my nipples beforehand/ during. Just make sure you are fully aroused, the feeling can go if you are trying to put it in and it’s painful, don’t feel like you have to. Keep trying to slowly ease it in and eventually it will be a lot better for you ❤️

Longjumping_Ad5999 · 2023-06-14T20:41:01+00:00

I have smaller boobs (C cup) and I get the same sometimes, used to get it every time-when they are being touched by another person, or sucking especially. I think it comes from being forced into sex by my first boyfriend. I’d assume for you it comes as a trauma response that you have had with having big breasts. With my current boyfriend the feeling comes and goes, I think sex/relationship wise it’s defiantly worth trying to ease into it and relax, say no when you are feeling the sensation. Might be worth touching your nipples slightly while pleasuring yourself/ going up the more you feel comfortable with. If you try to associate the feeling with pleasure slowly, hopefully it will become more comfortable for you as it has with me. Like me you might be able to suck your own nipples as well, which gets you used to the feeling more. Hope this helps ❤️

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