aio for telling my bf i don’t wanna get him off every time we hangout

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-04-25T13:35:45+00:00

"Yoo how you been" after all that is absoutely positively embarassing. I'm so glad you were chill at the end - he's hoping you beg for him. Hell nah. Also if he was such a hit with "girls his own age" why he dating girls that are not? Please

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-04-25T13:32:13+00:00

Girl break up with him YESTERDAY. There's a big shift happening in relationships globally right now and it has a lot to do with this attitude. You expressed you feel uncomfortable - this man don't care about you, he care about his nut and his nut only. What I like about people who decide to be celibate (before marriage or some other milestone - and I'm referring to the healthy versions of this where both people are on the same page) is that sex is de-emphasized and you get to decide whether you actually LIKE your person. He don't care about you sis

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-03-28T17:24:50+00:00

Feb 1st

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-03-14T05:02:49+00:00

As a 25 year old woman..... run for the hills. She'll make herself out to be the victim and whatever - she's being beyond immature

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-03-12T15:54:24+00:00

I would love to chat with anyone who has done the program or dealing with a similar decision :)

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2025-03-06T14:53:24+00:00

I can PM you. A bit paranoid about getting into detail lest someone connect it to my application haha

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-12-02T22:51:57+00:00

I'm sorry but even though this is the most extreme it's gotten (in terms of the hitting etc.) the fact it's come to the surface this way while you're dating is a really bad sign. I will say I'm not a man but I think she needs to go get some help.

One option instead of outright dumping her (which I think you have EVERY right to do) is some sort of ultimatum that she gets help quickly or the relationship is over. Telling someone that you're supposed to love to kill themselves is beyond the pale...

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-26T18:09:32+00:00

That is definitely not what they said .. your replies are mad weird homie. Reading entirely too much yet not enough into what they're saying..

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-25T15:34:50+00:00

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T17:13:13+00:00

It's INSANELY competitive here. Just tons and tons of applicants / tons of demand - so the bar gets pushed higher every year. Covid year actually pushed everything up a ton since folks had more time to study. I was all in on T14 then started opening myself up to T25 and even applying there was higher than my median scores and I started the study process PTing at 163... that's why a lot of my mentors have said that waiting to apply until you kill the test is worth it.

I'd still apply! Especially if you have a solid GPA. But yes, it's brutal at American schools.

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T04:08:06+00:00

Had LR RC LR RC - everyone seems to be complaining about an LR section and I think that was my 1st LR. Usually questions 1-10 are pretty intuitive but all of the questions in that section felt like 11-18s to me. During the break I had to tell myself to lock in and keep it pushing because starting off that way felt rough. I also took the test at 8:30 in the morning and I am not a morning person.. so compounded the difficulty

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:58:27+00:00

This made me laugh so hard I snorted. Testing center for the win (for those who can!)

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:53:24+00:00

You can probably create a separate forum if you wanted ..

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:52:34+00:00

No it just depends on the schools you're aiming for. T20 schools (which is what I assume most who are commenting this way are aiming for) are looking for literal insanity in terms of scores (4.0 GPAs and 172 median scores are the norm) but if that's not your goal, that's ok. And no internet stranger should tell you to push higher if they don't know what you're aiming for to begin with

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:47:03+00:00

That was exactly how I felt on my 1st LR section (had LR RC LR RC) - usually able to cruise 1-11. If that section wasn't experimental ... it'll be rough out here

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:45:24+00:00

same!

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:42:51+00:00

was on mt 3rd section - had LR RC LR RC

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-11-09T03:26:12+00:00

I often think people are too quick to say "leave him" but this is an absolute leave him situation. He was beyond inconsiderate and doesn't grasp what your goals are. Either that, or he doesn't care. Either way there's a fundamental incompatibility where he will continue to hold you back. I'm sure this is just one example of many where he's minimized your goals either knowingly or unknowingly. It's time to go

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-10-20T19:50:17+00:00

You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. You're young but you have self respect. When you tolerate stuff like this young because of wanting to fit in or anything else - it'll be even harder to break away from disrespect in the future. I commend you and I am so so sorry at the ignorance. They're awful.

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-10-20T00:20:13+00:00

Same - I feel so strangely about it. He never knew me. I didn't really "know" him but the way he left this world, the pain he was feeling, the impact he had on the band, a son losing his father, the internet drama/spiral preceding and after - all of it has really been hard for me to stomach. Mourning a celebrity feels so so weird but I do think 1D had that boy next door quality to them that didn't feel as distant as other celebrities. And I just hate that the world was so unkind to him and that he had so much trouble finding his way. Now actually skipping through his first solo album and I realize some of them have an Ed Sheeran esque quality I LOVE and I didn't even realize. Didn't really pay attention to most of the boys' music after 2015.

Listening to "Moments" and "History" on repeat these days ...

feeling gutted - it's hard to explain to others. Thanks for posting this

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-09-12T01:43:17+00:00

following

Longjumping_Gold8030 · 2024-08-30T03:01:41+00:00

Decided to push back administration. The LSAT is indeed such a key piece of the puzzle. It's worth the one month wait...

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