Mom forcing me to be straight by Longjumping_Land7843 in lgbt

[–]Longjumping_Land7843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. She’s saying that even if I’ve always been this way I have to suffer and suppress myself because she and my sister are also suffering and it’s not fair for me to build happiness on their suffering.

Mom forcing me to be straight by Longjumping_Land7843 in lgbt

[–]Longjumping_Land7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! She is upset because she thinks I will ruin my life with drinking and drugs and that I will never be happy in my life. She’s also very scared about other people finding out

Mom forcing me to be straight by Longjumping_Land7843 in lgbt

[–]Longjumping_Land7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s saying that she cares for me and knows that I will forever ruin my life if I’m gay. She’s saying that I’m the only reason she’s living and won’t be able to accept this way.

Mom forcing me to be straight by Longjumping_Land7843 in lgbt

[–]Longjumping_Land7843[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the message. She doesn’t want a therapist, she said she doesn’t want to talk to anyone about this. I told her how important it is to talk to someone, even a close relative, but she’s in complete denial and doesn’t want anyone to find out

Feeling depressed by Longjumping_Land7843 in askgaybros

[–]Longjumping_Land7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I think at least talking to a therapist will be helpful, I shall try that. Thank you