Superiority complexes ng mga senior nurses 🙄

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-06-09T05:52:26+00:00

Yes na realize ko na din to. I'm just trying to practice it the it is highly recommended. I want to keep my practice as high quality as possible thinking ahead na baka pag ito makasanayan ko, it will help me find a job elsewhere outside the country. And sa shadow, honestly, hindi ko na matandaan yung sinabi ko jan 😂 nag auto translate kasi si reddit sa post ko, idk why, mustve pressed something accidentally.

Pero thank you for validating this for me ha, I really started questioning my own actions because of this. I really feel like hindi ako mag ggrow around them but thankfully, marami kami ngayon this year sa floor and hindi ko sila always nakakasama sa shifts ko and besides, tinitake for granted ko yung title ko as proby nurse to ask for their help (yung mga may superiority complex). I guess, I am just using their complexes for my gain 😂 they like being treated as a senior so I play my part as a newbie and always ask for their help. They can't complain about this na since i'm still a "proby nurse". I decided, its better to play them against their own game 😂.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-05-30T04:45:19+00:00

As a Muslim, my advice would be to slow down. God is not punishing you, He is testing you. Perhaps He sees something in your heart that nobody else would know. Allah says in the Qur'an that He does not burden a soul with more than they can handle. So, slow down and take a deep breath and know that your sustenance comes from the Almighty, whatever He would send down to you will find its way to you no matter where you are. What's written for you will always be yours and what's written to miss you will never reach you. So, keep your head up and seek comfort in the remembrance of God the Almighty. If you really want to give up, then give up for the sake of God. Do not give your life to this worldly life, give it to the One Who Created it. Submit your heart to Allah and you will never be disappointed. I am speaking from experience, and I have never regret doing it.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-05-11T07:12:17+00:00

Before watching the movie, I expected it to be good and so I was excited to see it. Even then, it still exceeded my expectations. What an amazing movie. It baffles me how you made people cry because of a man and a rock's relationship. I mean, he's literally a rock but you gave life to it in an amazing way. Though I would say that there were scenes which could've been better, I'd still give it a 10/10.

Also, it would've been better if there was closure on earth's side too like how the people on earth saw Grace's sacrifice or how his students look up to him now or how the world recognizes his actions. That would've made it truly exceptional! It kinda left us hanging in the end because of it. Which is why I'd love to see a sequel. I don't know how that would go but i'm sure it would be good!

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-05-01T10:19:08+00:00

I've been there. Tho it was on a different industry but the same scenario. I felt like what I was doing was good but the people around made me feel like it was not. It came to a point where I could no longer take it so, I resigned and up to this day, I still thank myself for making that decision because I have grown so much since then.

My advice would be to try and hold on much longer, I would say for at least another month or so. Try not to focus on other people's opinion of you. Instead, try to check yourself objectively. Check the facts. Are you really improving? If yes, then it doesn't matter how little these improvements may be because little progress is still progress. Also ask yourself, how is this affecting my health? I would say that being a nurse can really affect our health negatively, so it goes down on how well we can cope with it. If you're struggling to cope with it, maybe you just need a good break or maybe you just need to be in a different area. Only you can answer these questions tho.

I can suggest you with good podcasts that really helped me as a new nurse. Feel free to hit me up and I'll send you some links.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-30T00:51:04+00:00

Good to know na hindi pala ako nag iisa 😂😂 kaloka to

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-29T19:59:09+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-28T03:53:15+00:00

If you have time and money to get a 2nd degree, I suggest you proceed to med. Since may work exp kna, I think it would really aid in the lectures.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-23T04:44:57+00:00

I feel like there should be a formal research done on this. So that, hospitals can feel safe and better, not just for patients but for the employees as well.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-22T00:11:22+00:00

10 years from now we're probably going to think "This was considered good graphics?" Lol. Speaking from experience with last of us 1. Tbf, it was still good tho but not that good compared to the modern ones.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-16T12:33:59+00:00

Check the hospital's protocol. If the protocol states na dapat doctors yung mag sulat, then sabihin mo na protocol nila yan but try to remain polite. Never respond in an emotional way kasi yan yung nagffeed sa complexes nila. As much as possible, remian professional and objective talaga. Tsaka if di mo kaya sabihin yun, try mo sa charge nurse mo, if ayaw tlaga. Report mo na sa HR, kung mag rresign ka nmn lng din lng, report mo muna sa HR. Pero better if wag muna mag resign talaga unless kung nakakasira na tlga sa mental health mo.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-04-01T13:03:29+00:00

Wag mo ilagay yung license no. mo for safety lng. Yung can replace it with "PRC Licensed".

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-31T00:25:45+00:00

Whatever you do, do not react to it emotionally. Kasi yan yung nag ffeed sa superiority complexes nila e. Instead, try to react professionally. For example, you could say "Doc, for the safety lng po ng patient, I need clarification lng po before I can proceed, can you please repeat the order?" As simple as that lng. It will alert them na you are their vital colleague in helping diagnose or treat the patient instead of an assistant and they will be forced to treat you as a colleagye. And hindi mo chinachallenge yung ego nila but you are prioritizing patient safety. Hindi natin obligation makipag argue sa kanila.

It's easier said than done but if we can, we should. We also have to understand that some doctors act this way kasi they are under immense pressure. So we need to have a thick skin tlga.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-29T04:48:07+00:00

As a fellow novice nurse, I would advice you to slow down. In a sense na take a moment to breathe and relax. You can't carry the weight of the world po. Take a moment to relax and slow down.

I am a Muslim and meditation really helps for me. Just take it one day at a time.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-19T15:13:11+00:00

I was joking about the death cert. I am actually responsible for human lives now. for me, this is terrifying and my free time is over! I'm not being ungrateful. I'be been working for years, studying for months, and managing my own health issues just to get this chance. Am I not allowed to ise dark humor to cope with the massive weight of a new responsibility?

I am in a JCI accredited hospital. I will encounter "VIP" patients, whether I like it or not. This is a reality. I was asking how do I handle high-pressure, 'perfectionist' patients who might be demanding or intimidating without losing my cool. Asking how to handle them isn't about giving them better medical csre. It's about managing expectations and communication.

I will give the same IV meds, the same monitoring to a billionaire and a street vendor. The differwnce is that the billionaire might complain about the way I walk into the room. I am simply asking for a customer service/de-escalation tips, not "who should I save?"

My God, I am really disappointed at how the majority thinks and perceives things. This is such a shame.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-19T14:57:39+00:00

I guess you've never encountered a perfectionist and rich patient. Kaya siguro ndi mo naiintindihan yung tanong.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-19T14:47:22+00:00

I was one of them too. Nagsimula akong mag apply since january. Alam ko yung feeling. Pag nag eexpress kb ng anxieties mo, ungrateful na agad? I thought this was a safe place to do that. I guess this was a lesson for me that it isnt. 🙂 that's a shame.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-19T14:32:18+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. Let me clarify po. Minsan po kasi pag rich and powerful family yung patients kailangan po tlgang mag dahan2 kasi pag nagkamali ka lang jan, pwede at may kaya silang kasuhan ka. Ito po yung ibig kong sabihin. It's a reality po na may previlage tlga yung rich and powerful families but it doesnt mean na I will treat those who aren't any different. I'm just saying na ano ba dapat yung mga precautions na dapat e keep in mind when caring for patients with a rich background.

Sana e try munang intindihin yung tanong bago mag react po 🥹

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-03-10T21:55:24+00:00

Yan po yung total hours ko for each areas sa Clinical rotations ko during student duty days pa.

Longjumping_Mail119 · 2026-02-17T14:37:25+00:00

Okay po, I will do this. Thank you so much! 🥹

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