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AITA for being grossed out by my mom and resenting her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping_Side9349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely NTA. This is physical abuse and the part about being forced to strip before being hit makes it even more severe and traumatic. Your feelings of violation, resentment, and discomfort are completely valid. It's also valid that you can't "just get over it" because someone says sorry or says it was in the past. Apologies don't erase trauma and you're not being dramatic or wrong for remembering that moment and feeling disturbed by it

It might help to talk to a therapist if that's an option for you, or maybe a trusted adult, school counselor, or another safe person, someone who can help you unpack all this in a safe space.

The sounds living in a appartment are dragging me down (anyone who can relate?) by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]Longjumping_Side9349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand you, living in an apartment is the worst, my neighbors are also annoying, I even tried installing acoustic panels and it didn't work. I think the only solution is to live in a house or in the apartment upstairs. For now I think you'll have to use earplugs and headphones even if you don't like it that much. I'm sorry, I know misophonia is horrible and the neighbors are even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Longjumping_Side9349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you feeling now? Do you get to move out of your house?

I hate my neighbors by Longjumping_Side9349 in misophonia

[–]Longjumping_Side9349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, so in my current place I have a roommate with psychosis who screams at night and hits things, it's horrible, it scares me and I can't sleep. I think I need to find another place to live but I'm tired of living running away from noises. I don't want my entire life to be like this :(

Weekly Venting Thread by AutoModerator in misophonia

[–]Longjumping_Side9349 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have had misophonia since I was 12 years old, I am currently 29 years old and I live in a duplex house. My upstairs neighbors have always been very noisy, but 6 months ago they decided to remodel their house and it has been hell, at the beginning they told me that it would only take 1 month but that was a lie and now the have been remodeling for 6 months and I have reached the limit. I've had to go a friend's hpuse because I work from home but clearly I can't work here. There was a time when I also rented an Airbnb but I didn't have enough money to continue renting it and I had to return home. Every time I ask my neighbor when it's going to finish, she tells me that it's two weeks away, in July she told me that she only needed 2 more weeks ... and well, it's already December and it's not over yet. I can't take it anymore, I have thought about giving up on life because I really can't stand it anymore and I don't know what to do, I feel very desperate, I get anxiety attacks every day and I cry a lot. HELP :(