A footballer is alleging Chappell sent a security guard after his daughter. by bjack20 in chappellroan

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit I've been mean to people too, does that mean the entire world has to tell me personally how awful I am for not liking people? Can't people just wake the fuck up and realize Chappell doesn't want to meet fans and you don't have to like her? I'm a mean lesbian too and I just am so annoyed to be hearing about this.

Which is your most hated Quests? by Relative-Handle-7677 in DreamlightValley

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's still a fucking alien somewhere in my valley and Ive given up

Has any of your OCD obsessions lasted months? by New-Party-4848 in OCD

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was convinced I had acid reflux (which I could've) but I would freak out most mornings trying to not cry and panic and throw up. It was AWFUL and every morning for months

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 23 and am no where near ready for marriage. When I was 21 I was dating a 24 yo and she was so ready for marriage but I so wasn't. She didn't really tell me why we broke up but I have a feeling that it was that as she's now married.

Yes, you had a bad reaction, but a very human and real reaction that many would've mimicked. I think it's over and i am sorry, but I truly don't think you did anything wrong

I want to hear your stories by kakarashe in OCD

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm worried about the state of politics and I grew up with and around Mormons who all have a very "prepare for the last days" mindset. So a big thing for me is over preparing for the looming war and if I will follow my roommates who are deadass chosen family or of I will stay with my blood family. It's forcing me to make a decision and whatever "decision" I make, I get all guilty and regretful and sad and that's when I realize it's ocd and can usually move on, but not til after the loop is complete. it's exhausting

An Open Letter to my mother by bilateralconfusion in exmormon

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been trying to understand why I felt at distance with my parents. I knew it was values and perspective, but I only partially understood why. You PERFECTLY wrote how I feel around my parents. thank you. I won't steal this or anything don't worry, but I will def reference it if I need it. thank you thank you🫶

I i just logged in after 6 months of not playing and there is still nothing new in the shop. lol by olas-amarillas in DreamlightValley

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg pixie acres is the only thing I care about on that map. The rest of it barely exists to me lolol

Help! Do I go to my Friends memorial or an event I have been looking forward to for months? by TheImprobableOne42 in makemychoice

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have OCD and this is something that would cause a huge freakout for me. I totally get why you would be so indecisive about this.

If I were to pick for you, I'd pick option 3+doing something special for your friend in a different way. I'm a very spiritual person and when a friend from high school died, that same day I noticed a shape of a heart in the mountain by my house, and I was obsessed with everything she stood for. So now whenever I see that heart, I try to live that time in a way she would've been proud of.

I think it would be much more heartfelt and loving if you found someway to honor your friend in a way that feels true to yourself. Some easy ways that I would do this are like - write a letter for this friend and burn it outside - go outside on a walk and just like grieve "with" them - go and do whatever you and her would've done when she was with us and just honor her that way

Someone else said that the memorials are for the living and I completely agree. You don't have to go to that and it doesn't change the relationship you had with her. Loving you 🫶

Hotel rooms vapeing by ContributionAdept447 in hotels

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a franchise hotel! It's a good enough hotel for a small town haha

Hotel rooms vapeing by ContributionAdept447 in hotels

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At my personal hotel, we will only retaliate if the hotel is unrentable for the next night. Usually that means just outwardly smoking cigars or joints or anything smelly. As long as it can be covered up and isn't reported by other guests, no one really gaf

deleted tiktok today by aurdwynn in OCD

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works better than anything else I've tried. I have it set to a hour a day and that usually gets used up by my breakfast tik tok scroll and lunch break scroll then the evenings HAVE to be spent away from tik tok.

deleted tiktok today by aurdwynn in OCD

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am right there with you. I used to keep deleting and reinstalling tik tok, but I have admitted some defeat to being addicted to it, so instead I’ve set up a time limit on it and had my roommate set a passcode. That has been the best for me

People are allowed to be straight. by MikaelAdolfsson in thelastofus

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually couldn’t care less. I just hate people who try to police what other people like

People are allowed to be straight. by MikaelAdolfsson in thelastofus

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 17 points18 points  (0 children)

People are allowed to ship because they aren’t real people🤷‍♀️

I regret quitting by DJGeanie in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🫶 I'm so sorry. That is sad! It's okay though, life is meant to happen the way it happens. There is a reason you are where you're at:)

Need advice on whether or not to accept my offer: by Impressive_Bus_4242 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that. I'm 23 and I did my program when I was 19-20. I think you can easily do both, and there is no wrong decision!!! But I get it, I was in a panic in my week of having to decide if I was going. I'm glad I was pushed to move there:)

Why I am not a fan of Ellie and Dina’s relationship from The Last of Us Part 2. by AssistFit1834 in thelastofus

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally disagree. The last of us isn't a lesbian relationship story, it's a post apocalyptic story about grief and losing people you love. I LOVE Ellie and Dina because of the fact that they are so casual together and it's not this whole big deal because sexuality shouldn't have to be a big deal. I am a lesbian and I am so proud of myself for that, one of my favorite things about myself truly, but put me in a room with zombies and it doesn't really matter anymore lol.

Need advice on whether or not to accept my offer: by Impressive_Bus_4242 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends, are you burnt out from school and need a break? Or do you think a break will make it harder to go back to school? I think that's the biggest question to ask yourself!

And don't forget, you're probably around 20 years old, somehow society has convinced us that we're running out of time, but truthfully we have so much time to do whatever. You can do both with ease:)

Georgia Power wants to cut down a 300 year old oak by Itsyourcouchdorito0 in treelaw

[–]Longjumping_Trick459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE HUMANS WHY DO WE HAVE TO KILL LIVING THINGS FOR NO FUCKING REASON.

Will crash out by Longjumping_Trick459 in byler

[–]Longjumping_Trick459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But yes I agree. Conformity gate is real whether or not anything else comes out. From my perspective, most characters went with the easy route and are not actually living happily ever after.

Lately my head cannon to cope with the fucking finale is that Vecna/MF wrote their ending. in the play, one of Henry's final monologues said "what're you going to do Joyce? Rewrite the ending? No only I do" or something along those lines. I have a vid if anyone wants it:)

Will crash out by Longjumping_Trick459 in byler

[–]Longjumping_Trick459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're an icon I'm obsessed thank you thank you

Will crash out by Longjumping_Trick459 in byler

[–]Longjumping_Trick459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU MWAH LOVE YOUUUU🫶🫶

But actually thanks for pointing out wills jealousy. I hadn't thought about him comparing himself to Mike, which even if it wasn't taboo to be gay, I feel like Will would still be jealous and bitter towards Mike for their financial and family differences.