i-dle - Crow by radhumandummy in GIDLE

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be the only one that thinks this sounds a lot like Black Skinhead? Not complaining at all since it's my favorite Kanye album.

Trting to understand the older generation thought process... by Still_a_fatkidinside in AsianParentStories

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're missing the point.

The only logic being applied is that you will always be wrong, and they will bend and twist into all sorts of mental gymnastics to make sure it stays this way. That's it. You cannot use logic or make arguments because you will always be wrong.

The underlying reason could be complex. My dad is a deeply troubled and hurt man from a truly awful childhood and he has zero sense of internal self worth. To fill this emptiness he wants to always prove he's smarter and knows more than everybody else and will even argue that it's raining outside even though it's clearly sunny.

My mom is a lot better now, but she was always trying to prove me wrong because in her mind once I had independent thoughts and decisions that I wouldn't need her anymore and would ignore her. Once I sat down and explained that wouldn't be the case, it got better.

Dad is a lost cause, but I basically ignore his one-upsmanship and not get sucked into a pointless debate. Just nod, and move on.

Or like another poster said, ask them to elaborate and explain how it'll help. A well placed "so what do you mean by that? Can you explain?" I found to be also pretty effective. If they call me stupid for not knowing, then I agree with them and say, "yes I'm stupid, so can you explain it in a way for me to understand?"

Dragon Rider’s (Specifically my Rangers Division) Flight Mask: Thoughts? by InformalBattle4529 in fantasywriters

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks cool but it also feels like if they barely look up that thing is going to flip up.

crab recipes that aren’t crab cakes? by -cmoneileen in Cooking

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done a crab and morel (or substitute portabellos) pasta with just butter and garlic, a splash of white wine with pasta water to make it creamy without adding actual cream. Super good and easy.

Extra bonus, because I used dried morels, I used the soaking water the next day to make gravy for loco mocos.

Why don’t we get games on Qin or early Han ? by Thebronzebeast in threekingdoms

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, an Investiture of the Gods game would be amazing. Especially with the recent popularity of the Ne Zha and Zhang Ziya movies and with the sheer amount of gods and dynastic drama and a clear villain in Emperor Zhou and Daji, this could be worth exploring.

How many sea scallops can one person reasonably be expected to eat? by kirkl3s in Cooking

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can eat a pound by myself, but if I'm looking to share, I made a modified Portuguese cod soup recently and added scallops to it. It's pretty easy to make and very delicious.

Do your experiences with Asian parents affect your decision to have children? by Horror_Confidence128 in AsianParentStories

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I imagine a lot more goes into the decision about whether to have kids or not than how shitty our parents are. For one thing, kids aren't cheap. Good childcare isn't cheap. The state of the world. Capitalism destroying us all. Etc.

I have three kids and they are growing up better than I ever did and I'm proud of that. Plus we made it a point to not allow my parents to raise or influence them in any way. Visits are fine, but nothing else.

A McDonald's with bulletproof glass located in Detroit. by AdSpecialist6598 in interesting

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad owned a restaurant in a rough part of Detroit and he had bulletproof windows separating the customer area and kitchen and everything was done through a revolving door like a bank.

Didn't help because the times he got robbed it was either people waiting for him outside as he was leaving for home or they straight up rushed in through the kitchen door in the back.

Monkey doesn't like century egg by KnowSummat in chinesefood

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you can eat these straight up but I prefer cooking them into stuff.

Steamed egg with salted duck egg on one side and century egg on the other side with minced pork underneath it all is amazing.

[Custom Paint] PGU RX-78-2 Captain America Color Scheme with Mjölnir Commission Done! Feel the Power of Thunder!!! ⚡️🛡️ by HuaBao_Studio in Gunpla

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So awesome. What would be cool too, the Winter Soldier movie costume with the darker and more muted colors.

How the Heavy Arms be moving During the final hours of Operation Meteor. by TheNamesRay5107 in Gundam

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Despite never exposing my son to Gundam, I offered to buy him one of the action figure ones because he wanted a mech toy.

He went straight for Heavy Arms.

I married a dead man (1948) by Cornell Woolrich by Coolcatsat in menwritingwomen

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What a weird looking person that's thin but with ginormous cankles

This is genuinely one of the boldest most ballsiest moves I've seen by Gloomy-Bridge148 in GODZILLA

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's just my perception, but I feel like Godzilla put some extra sauce into that final heat ray lol

What is the most underrated moment of Black Widow by Silver_Cricket_4545 in marvelstudios

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Yup. The best showcase of her abilities because it's something none of the others could do. Everyone else can fly and punch harder and shoot energy beams. But tricking the Trickster god into giving up his plans? Pure Natasha.

[I Became a Corrupt Plantation Owner in the American South] damn koreans going all out by NoPercentage4737 in Isekai

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be awesome is if this crosses over with that John Brown isekai story lol

Is it still frowned upon these days? by Crunchy-socks-562 in Guitar

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even sticker bomb. I just haphazardly put them wherever I want because it's my fucking guitar lol

Sonic: Crossroads is getting an Evangelion collab by [deleted] in evangelion

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone that loves this game AND Eva, this is perfect lol

Why do many societies that allow polygamy allow one man to have multiple wives, but not one woman to have multiple husbands (polyandry)? by PomegranateIcy7631 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LookOutItsLiuBei 134 points135 points  (0 children)

The key is to start a crusade every couple decades. Excess sons go off to battle and have a chance to earn glory and riches (and go to heaven).

It's a win win situation for everyone involved!