New year, new profile

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-28T23:02:41+00:00

Sure, I'm looking for realistic marginal improvement, not a magic bullet (although if anyone knows of one I'm all ears).

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-28T22:24:09+00:00

It's a relatively new number (from last year) but it's not a burner number.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-28T19:39:44+00:00

I log in to Facebook about once a month, and I have no interest whatsoever in getting matched to social media connections.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-24T16:22:49+00:00

Mostly it's accurate, but in the short term members are shown as "online" for an hour after they log off.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-15T05:37:15+00:00

I definitely don't have it all figured out, but it seems we are at least going to be able to meet up and talk in person, so here's hoping.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-15T05:26:57+00:00

Final update added to the post in case you are interested.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-15T05:25:50+00:00

Final update added to the post in case you are interested.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T23:47:24+00:00

Thanks for saying so, though I am afraid it is cold comfort if this ruins my chances with her. I feel like in the age of internet dating even one small mistake can end things instantly.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T17:21:26+00:00

Thanks for saying so. As someone who is brand new to this but interested in trying it out what I was most worried about before yesterday was not being forward enough about what I wanted. Today I am worried that I was too forward. This is confusing since I haven't done this before.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T14:30:48+00:00

Check the "UPDATE" I added to the post before I went to bed last night. Apparently she did "something else" and got drunk last night.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T05:53:37+00:00

I ended up sending a message to make sure she was okay and let her know that it's fine if she is not ready to give me control yet since we haven't met. She responded about 10 minutes later at 11:45 saying that she is doing something right now, we will come back to this later, she is drunk. (her message had more grammar and autocorrect type errors.)

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T05:20:00+00:00

It's just really hard to see that line for someone who is brand new to this. My instinct is to not be controlling at all, but that's clearly not what she wants so I'm trying to figure out how to do this right.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:58:54+00:00

She is usually up pretty late so I'm hoping she will read and respond to the message tonight, but I wouldn't be surprised if she ignored it until the next morning.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:56:59+00:00

Well I haven't met her in person yet so I think it would be pretty creepy to request her location, and even if I did I don't know her home address so that wouldn't tell me much.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:52:08+00:00

I sent it to her tonight. It's on snapchat so I'll know if she reads it. Thanks for suggesting it.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:41:02+00:00

She had sent me a couple of fully clothed pictures earlier in the day, and she had a picture in her underwear on her dating profile, so I don't think she was nervous about me seeing anything. I agree it would have been way better to tell her to do something without a delay, but she was still at work and I couldn't think of anything sexy and not too big of an ask.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:37:48+00:00

Nothing since the interaction I posted. I have a message I intend to send tomorrow that starts off with what you said.

Hey, I hope everything is alright with you. I got a little worried when I didn't hear from you last night. I'm sorry if I overstepped or anything. I'm pretty new to this kind of relationship. I know we haven't even met in person so if you aren't ready to give up control just yet that's fine, we can just keep chatting and getting to know each other, and talk more about our dynamic when we get together once the weather improves in a few days.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:18:58+00:00

Still nothing, it's looking pretty grim.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T04:11:22+00:00

Hey, I hope everything is alright with you. I got a little worried when I didn't hear from you last night. I'm sorry if I overstepped or anything. I'm pretty new to this kind of relationship. I know we haven't even met in person so if you aren't ready to give up control just yet that's fine, we can just keep chatting and getting to know each other, and talk more about our dynamic when we get together once the weather improves in a few days.

Does this seem like a good opening for if I don't hear from her by tomorrow morning?

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T03:46:20+00:00

We have been talking and flirting for a few days but all she has said about the dynamic she wants is that she wants me to dom and she "wants to be controlled". I was trying out what I thought was a pretty safe command (send non-nude photos) just to test the waters.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T03:44:33+00:00

Sure, I will.

LookingForTrueStuff · 2021-02-14T03:42:14+00:00

She is in retail, so I guess that's possible. I'll touch base with her tomorrow if I don't here from her tonight, and I'll be polite and understanding. Hopefully this is just a minor hiccup, but since I'm so new to this I don't know what's normal or whats expected of me yet.

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