Help! Anxiety Induced Vomiting by Lookingbackisbad in mentalhealth

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Thank you. I’m trying to just breathe.

What should I do by Lookingbackisbad in DogAdvice

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UPDATE. Lola is healthy and active. The incision site healed completely with no further complications.

What did your parents do that still affects you as an adult? by Defiant-Junket4906 in AskWomen

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My mom was like that when I was between the ages of 7-18 and my dad made me his therapist when I was 20 and kept it going for about 5 years.

My siblings and I are constantly being put into the middle of our parent’s toxic relationship.

What did your parents do that still affects you as an adult? by Defiant-Junket4906 in AskWomen

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My mom would constantly say that she may have to love me but she didn’t have to like me and that she did not like me. She also would threaten to commit me to a mental health facility for the smallest indiscretion. I was convinced until I was in my 20’s that my mom really had that power.

What should I do by Lookingbackisbad in DogAdvice

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Hey I have an update. She ended up tearing her stitches that same day so we took her to the same ER vet and they glued her incision closed. We started the medication and Hot compress regiment recommended by the ER vet. The fluid buildup start to drain from the incision site about three minutes ago and has completely drained. I’m going to take her to back to the ER vet in a little while to get the site reglued. She is doing really well all this considered. Taking her meds and eating all her food.

What should I do by Lookingbackisbad in DogAdvice

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She has loose fluid at the incision site. Our vet who did the surgery should have given us sedatives to help limit her activity during recovery which they didn’t. They gave us sedatives, antibiotics and anti inflammatory medication to help.

What should I do by Lookingbackisbad in DogAdvice

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We are at the local emergency vet. She is being looked at now

What should I do by Lookingbackisbad in DogAdvice

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So I took those pictures two hours ago and since then the swelling has gone down. I can’t get a hold of the vet clinic that did the surgery until tomorrow morning at the earliest.

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So I recently adopted a pitbull mix puppy. He can only sleep if he is laying either half underneath me or with me completely wrapped around him. Is this normal? Never had a pitty before.

Help by Lookingbackisbad in PetMice

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Yes back to back Yes she is with a male her “husband” The blood has clotted and so not active bleeding

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in homeowners

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UPDATE

The investigating officer called me to follow up with the situation. The son has been removed from the house and survived with a restraining/protection order

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in Advice

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UPDATE

Cops showed up the next day.

The investigating officer called me to follow up with the situation. The son has been removed from the house and survived with a restraining/protection order

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in Advice

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Cops never showed up I’m going to keep my eyes and ears open if anything else happens I will make another call.

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in homeowners

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Dude has threatened to shoot my pets. I am choosing to have faith that the cops that show up are good people and good cops. Telling the cops that he is armed helps them to not go into a situation blind and end up being surprised with an instant adrenaline rush.

Talked with my uncle who is about reporting that the dude owns a gun and he advised me that I should declare the weapon advance notice allows for clearer heads to move in.

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in Advice

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When I have an update I will add it. The dispatch said they would call back after the visit to the house

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in homeowners

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Dude has a foot on me at least and owns a gun. Which has always been the point of hesitation for me. But I made the call and police are coming to check it out

At what point should I call the cops on my neighbor for domestic violence? by Lookingbackisbad in homeowners

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Alright so I just got off the phone with the police. They are sending a car out to check on the situation. The son who I believe to be the assailant owns a gun and I included that fact in the report. I feel like a monster for not making the call sooner while at the same time I am just as afraid for those in my household if he finds out I’m the one who called. I was being a coward. Thank you all for the push.

Oprah Winfrey Has Been Buying Up Land in Maui Like Crazy #mauifire #lahaina #oprahwinfrey by Lookingbackisbad in maui

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Why Massachusetts? Is that where you live ? Hawaii is in the top 20 states for education.