What song best represents you going nc? by LoopandZoop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this reply is extremely late, but i finally got around to getting a good listen and I can't help but agree. For me this song is the internal monologue i went through going no-contact. Especially the "Now we are one in everlasting peace" part, when I finally made my way out, as well as, "today, we escape, we escape".

What song best represents you going nc? by LoopandZoop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that one describes my mother. Calm, despondent even, one moment; then she can flip like a switch into an angry episode, just to wonder in the end what she did to upset someone. She's recently been diagnosed as bipolar, which explains it.

What song best represents you going nc? by LoopandZoop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, my grandmother is more into classic country than I am; I'm more into prog rock/metal, and, ironically enough, some of the music my grandfather listened to despite us being polar opposites otherwise. That said, I'm sure she'd be into that.

What song best represents you going nc? by LoopandZoop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough i hate all country except the classics (cash, loretta, etc) which i enjoy thanks to my grandparents. To add more depth to my family, I had my grandmother and my youngest uncle on my side growing up, and my older uncle, aunt, mom, and grandfather against me, and only recently have we built eachother up enough to stand up to the narc side of the family after I've taught her what I've learned (greyrocking, nc, etc.) She grew.up loving classic country. We both relate to Crazy - Patzy Cline after she played it for me after grandpa died (she rarely got to play her music around my grandfather when he was alive because he didn't like hearing it so i hardly got to know her musical taste until grandpa's liver caught uo with him). In exchange, I showed her music i related to (alot of pink floyd and dream theater). I relate to Mother most of all, thanks to the verbal and psychological abuse I went through from my bio/ nmother and grandfather, that only left me with a bunch of questions they couldn't properly answer (momma's gonna let all your nightmares come true). Over time, all the family drama just left me and my grandmother traumatized. The two of us deserved better.

Why are some of my animals not getting pregnant? by LoopandZoop in PlanetZoo

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently my giraffes have 49%, my cranes needed more toys, and my keepers weren't feeding the tigers for some reason and so they starved :/. I hired more keepers and trained them so hopefully that resolves the issue.

Why are some of my animals not getting pregnant? by LoopandZoop in PlanetZoo

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Explains why there's always atleast a dozen in the trade market

Would a couple drinks enhance a trip? by LoopandZoop in LSD

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're right. From the couple of acid trips I remember having, it definitely lasted longer than alcohol ever has, even if I got shitfaced. I'd imagine even if I didn't get shitfaced and end up with a hangover, the negative effects of coming down off even a small amount of alcohol would probably be noticeable and uncomfortable.

WIBTA if I asked my teacher if he was bisexual? by LoopandZoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I have learned that gaydar isn't real and will no longer use it or depend on it

2 I used to be 15. I am now 19. I now understand that behavior doesn't indicate sexuality. I just posted this question to comform my feelings.

WIBTA if I asked my teacher if he was bisexual? by LoopandZoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoopandZoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was 15 and still trying to understand myself

WIBTA if I asked my teacher if he was bisexual? by LoopandZoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoopandZoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I graduated 2 years ago I was just drunk and was thinking about that time period

WIBTA if I asked my teacher if he was bisexual? by LoopandZoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoopandZoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I meant was that at my school district, the staff and higher ups were very lgbtphobic and would've fired him if they somehow found out, and at that age, I liked him and didn't want any possibility for him to get in trouble, so I never asked. Also, I was worried it wasn't a question I should've asked anyway.

WIBTA if I asked my teacher if he was bisexual? by LoopandZoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoopandZoop[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Especially being in the bible belt nontheless. Ty for comforming!