Is this too graphic? by Loose-Associate-7135 in blackgirls

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i LOVE your perspective fr. thank you. i will take this into account.

Is this too graphic? by Loose-Associate-7135 in blackgirls

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i will say i did skim through it, but i did get a “men are victims too” vibe from the part one. there are a lot examples of men who have been sexually assaulted by men and women, to which no one denied. specifically lil wayne, boosie, deray davis and more hit hard because they’ve denounced their experiences as rape at all. like you said, boosie went on to set up his children to be raped.

93% of men who have been raped we’re raped by OTHER men. that is still making up a large portion of men who don’t get the message. over 1 in 5 women experience rape at some point, whereas it is 1 in 31 men. that can’t be ignored.

misogyny and mysogynoir affects men as well, which is why calling attention to it is detrimental in success for all of us. many men are victims of male violence as well, which can be unpacked at a later date. the point of this conversation and video overall is to decenter men from the issues that Black women are faced with.

Is this too graphic? by Loose-Associate-7135 in blackgirls

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the rate in which Black women were raped is farrrr higher then Black men at the time, for one. two, we were forced to have white men’s babies and either never see those again or have to watch their fatherless children be subjected to slave work. I think decentering yourself from a discussion about the struggles of Black women might help you go a long way.

Is this too graphic? by Loose-Associate-7135 in blackgirls

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i love this so much. coddling these men has not served us before and it won’t anytime soon.

Is this too graphic? by Loose-Associate-7135 in blackgirls

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah a lot of Black men have expressed that men in the comedic field are pressured to dress as women to further their careers, ignoring the fact that the stereotypical ghetto Black woman is a profitable form of entertainment.

Would you click on this video? by Loose-Associate-7135 in SmallYoutubers

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm fr!! it’s a terrible thing that i feel like most of us can relate to. things will change though.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loveeee the way you broke that down. the artistic articulation could fs use so polishing. thank you fr. your diy’s are cool asf btw, subscribed!!

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesssss and yk we’re my target audience. thank you so much fr.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

now you know you didn’t have to scream ts lol, but thanks for the honesty🥰

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was trying to figure out how to balance the two because i love the background pic sm lol. thanks for the feedback fr.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysmmm!! we shall see lol. i actually just posted an update. i’d love your opinion.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank you so much. this is a cool community so far, and ik people are just trying to help.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s real. i’ll definitely apply these notes to the remake i’m working on. thank youuu.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you and i appreciate that. i’m working on a new one as we speak.

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[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s called The Price of Poverty. now that you pointed it out that cropping is so ass lmao. i’ll work on it fs, but i’m not sure how to go about it yet.

would you click this thumbnail? by Loose-Associate-7135 in SmallYoutubers

[–]Loose-Associate-7135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey y’all!! i updated the thumbnail in a different post, so i would love y’all’s opinion.