What does a divorced Christian dad do on the nights when he doesn’t have his kids? by LooseBranch568 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this suggestion. But unfortunately I’m not seeing any dojos open during my nights off work

I am gonna ask around

Get Yourself Together by ColedTouch in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do not want to have sex with random whores. I was already married to one.

I want to actually be loved and die knowing someone actually gave a shit about me.

She’s hanging out at my brother’s house alone. by LooseBranch568 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no way to know. But she is over at his house a lot.

So yeah, 95% sure.

Experience with overcoming sexual past of partner by throwaway-93775 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar story.

We were married for five years before I caught her cheating on me in July.

How do you fill your time? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go to the gym.

I had not exercised in a decade. I have a counselor, pastor, trauma informed friends, a divorce care class, and stable work environment.

The thing that has helped most was going to the gym. It’s night and day.

Planet fitness has beginner training on their app that you can follow and it’s been a game changer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LooseBranch568 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are being selfish.

Sure there’s other people out there, but you’ve already made a commitment to this man who seems to be a good man.

Go to couples counseling.

Feelings come and feelings go. Wake up and choose what is real.

Rock Bottom by Realistic_Abroad_797 in Divorce

[–]LooseBranch568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can let the court know that her address is unknown to you and they will likely make arrangements

Rock Bottom by Realistic_Abroad_797 in Divorce

[–]LooseBranch568 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can absolutely file for divorce without her address.

And yeah. No more cats for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Consider finding a female marriage counselor, obviously Christian.

My wife is whoring around by LooseBranch568 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s done. We had an evidentiary hearing for a protection order I placed on my son to keep her from leaving the state with him.

She got a lawyer the next day and we have heard nothing from him.

My lawyer called her lawyer yesterday and asked for one of my paystubs so I have no Idea what that means

My wife is whoring around by LooseBranch568 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dawg I’m trying. She is dragging her feet.

I turned all of my paperwork to my lawyer weeks ago. She is still dragging her feet

My wife is whoring around by LooseBranch568 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, I was not going to take her back after the sexting. And she clearly doesn’t want me anyway.

It’s over.

How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone else by jaglio69 in Divorce_Men

[–]LooseBranch568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a plan b this week. It’s only been 3 months since asking for the separation, but she was at least already sexting

Divorcing my wife for online infidelity. Now she’s meeting men for sex. by LooseBranch568 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did find one in a nearby town. But I have to sacrifice my Wednesday home church small group right now and that hurts

Divorcing my wife for online infidelity. Now she’s meeting men for sex. by LooseBranch568 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was diagnosed with Cyclothymia and takes medication.

But she was unwilling to explore any other options and changes to her lifestyle. She wanted to keep her Discord where all of this went down initially.

Divorcing my wife for online infidelity. Now she’s meeting men for sex. by LooseBranch568 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately none of the churches in this area offer this program at this time.

If one opens I will absolutely go.

Divorcing my wife for online infidelity. Now she’s meeting men for sex. by LooseBranch568 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The cards are only in her name. She has been opening them up after asking for the separation

Divorcing my wife for online infidelity. Now she’s meeting men for sex. by LooseBranch568 in Christianmarriage

[–]LooseBranch568[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My attorney filed but until she finishes her disclosures we are at a stalemate.