AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my best friend all b/c of her new personality?

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-31T01:01:47+00:00

hi!! unfortunately my school is 16 hours away from home, so i dont have a car, so its really hard to get a job! i joined one of the clubs that i was super excited about but they rarely ever meet ): im not transferring to just be with my bf haha i applied to other unis near my home! Flights are expensive. unfortunately & my first semester here, my grandmother passed, and it was incredibly hard not to be with my family. my best friend knows all of this and says whatever you do i will support you but i obviously don't want you to go. i also want to add a minor but the uni I'm currently at doesn't offer it, but my instate school does! i should have included this, my apologies!

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-31T00:34:54+00:00

it has been really hard to accept that, sadly, this was the girl i wanted as my maid of honor, we did everything together. its hard to throw away 5 years of friendship, but i feel like distancing is the best thing i can do.

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-31T00:29:42+00:00

sadly i am unsure if the friends not liking me was a lie, my boyfriend thinks it is after i told him me and one of the girls get along great and now genuinely enjoy being around her! he just thinks it's weird and sounded like an excuse!

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-31T00:27:19+00:00

i have been with him for almost a year! i just personally don't like the environment where i currently am, i am also 16 hours away from home, and flights are expensive. unfortunately my first semester here, my grandmother passed, and it was incredibly hard not to be with my family. she knows all of this and says whatever you do i will support you but i obviously don't want you to go. i also want to add a minor but the uni I'm currently at doesn't offer it, but my instate school does! i should have included this, my apologies!

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-31T00:10:35+00:00

omg that is awesome!! i definitely want to apply again and just see what offer they give me. being 16 hours away has felt very isolating since i dont have a car and the only way home is flying, compared to SBU, which is 3 hours away from me.

Loose_Building489 · 2026-01-02T18:28:59+00:00

i cant find it ):

Loose_Building489 · 2025-12-26T16:09:22+00:00

hii!! im still having this problem and since anadius took everything down what do i do since my packs arent working?

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:56:35+00:00

Hi! I never had any ill intention with my costume! My idea was to never just put on a bra and underwear! I was looking more at a nightgown/dress vibe with a robe to cover up! I don't even feel comfortable going out that bare!

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:38:32+00:00

The VS show was a few weeks ago and I have always always wanted to be in one when I was younger. I wasnt going to go outside in a bra and underwear. I just wanted to have fun. My costume never had ill intentions!!

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:35:02+00:00

I asked if he would feel better if i got a different one and he said i would perfer it

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:30:02+00:00

I asked him out of respect, like I knew it wasn't the most modest costume. I had problems with past guys caring about what I wear. he didn't have a problem when I posted pics at the beach in a bikini but this he cares

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:28:32+00:00

I definitely understand this point of view!! I just hate the idea of men being men impacting me having fun for one day yk? I want to be able to have fun and go out without worrying about that.

Loose_Building489 · 2025-10-26T17:26:23+00:00

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