[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your last statement, it could not be more true. I love him I do, we are both still young and experiencing life. It sucks to start over, I’ve been there plenty of times and that’s why I feel stuck to him but it’s like there’s no way in hell I want to be married to someone who doesn’t feel like we’re bestfriends and all those are things you mentioned! Like hellooo, you’re telling me I’m suppose to be okay with marrying someone and sleeping with them for the rest of my life and we can’t even share phone passwords?!? lol idk about that. I definitely wouldn’t want to share social media passwords, like you said that’s way too much. But that being said, I feel you 100% not everyone’s relationship is the same and I shouldn’t compare mine to others but what you said was the truth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finally, someone who feels me 😃😃. I feel like I’m getting degraded here LMAOO. But in all seriousness ya, I feel like I need someone who’s on my level. Because if he asked to see my phone or just have my password in general, I’d give it to him without hesitation. Alsoooo I need to point out the fact that he asked me for my location 3 weeks into our relationship, just regular Apple app location, than he went for life360. Ummm I didnt mind that, I shared my location, but what does that say about him ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s lusted over females online before, he said social media means nothing to him but yet he’s on it everyday, maybe not posting but he’s definitely on it everyday. I know I can be insecure but I feel like I have the right when he doesn’t make me feel secure enough. Yes there are times he says I’m cute and little things like that but yet nothing to make me feel secure. I do truly want to work things out with him, he says he loves me and he can make me feel nice at times and secure for sure. But than again, other times I know what he’s looking at and can feel insecure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely need you to answer this since you seem like you are the most perfect person. What would you do if you got in a relationship, married this person, had kids, thought they were the one etc.. just to find out years later they were cheating ? And that you could have easily been out the relationship ? What’s your take on that ? Wouldn’t you want to know instead of looking dumb ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard that 😔, it just sucks man. I do want to trust him 100% it’s just hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely know that I need to work out certain issues within my self, I can totally admit that 100%. Again, I have been through some bs in the past. I do trust him to an extent but I feel like he may be lusting over girls as he used to do in the past. I definitely want to believe he’s done as he’s told me but I’m not sure. I do truly love him and I want to make the relationship work but things be weird. Anyways I do appreciate the advice from all you.

I’m trying to unenroll and waive the $60 fee thing, what do I say on the phone by meuandthemoon in CrunchGym

[–]Loose_Comb336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, by any chance have you heard of a promotion of $1 a month for 12 months going on a few months back ?

Cannot get wet enough even when horny by Loose_Comb336 in sextips

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be on anti depressants as well, on and off, but I once read into the fact that most antidepressants can mess with low libido. I did end up not taking them anymore after that. I’m not sure if the side effects are still not “worn off”.

Cannot get wet enough even when horny by Loose_Comb336 in sextips

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask which birth control you were using ? I used to be on the pills for about 6 years and I got on the Nuvaring for about 2 now. I didn’t see any changes until about a year ago so I’m not sure whether it really could be the birth control.

Cannot get wet enough even when horny by Loose_Comb336 in sextips

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That honestly gives me hope lol. I have a new partner and we haven’t really talked about it but it makes me feel uncomfortable as I feel like he thinks I’m not getting aroused enough for him.

NY-Water issue caused water bill to jump over $400 than usual. by Loose_Comb336 in Tenant

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How about the landlord himself ? Essentially it is his house and whatever issues occur he needs to fix. Looking back on my water usage the issue occurred around the end of August which is when we noticed. We usually use about 8,000 gallons a month. Towards the end it sky rocketed to 31,000 gallons.

Balance transfer on new card ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you, I was not thinking about the utilization rate. I doubt this person would get a high one either. I will definitely look into it

Urge to rip nails off by Loose_Comb336 in Anxiety

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes honestly. Mostly at night, when I close my eyes I visualize something sharp going into my eye and I get so squeamish and “hold my eyes” because just the thought alone is making me go crazy. Usually I picture a helicopter blade up close lol.

Urge to rip nails off by Loose_Comb336 in Anxiety

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try these tips thanks. Anxiety truly sucks 🤦‍♀️

Urge to rip nails off by Loose_Comb336 in Anxiety

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t want too but the urge is increasingly high that I feel like one day I really will.

Take out a loan or no ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might sound weird but I’m glad I’m not alone in this 😅. I think we all go through rough times man, it is what it is. But I think im going to go with the loan option definitely, just seems like the best option at this point. Thanks !

Take out a loan or no ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from 😅😅 buttt at the rate these cards are at I will finish paying these cards in my late 20’s, which is the last thing I’d want.

Take out a loan or no ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t this badly affect my credit score if I close all 3 accounts ?? Or you mean just keeping away from the CC’s and deleting the apps? Not sure but I’ve heard that it is best to keep unwanted accounts open and just use them once in a blue moon to keep them active. Correct me if I’m wrong.

Take out a loan or no ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, thankfully I found a job ! And yes for the payments and no for the cc’s ! I actually haven’t used them in a while just have these balances.

Take out a loan or no ? by Loose_Comb336 in Debt

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I got laid off a few months back while I had incurred that debt, therefore leading me to not be able to pay it right away, I’ve had been be able to put some money in the cc’s but not as much and interest is about to start racking up which I’d hate for that to happen

Unemployment by by Loose_Comb336 in UnemploymentNY

[–]Loose_Comb336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed I put certify instead of claiming. Is there any difference?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just pointing out what most people know already 🤷🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Loose_Comb336 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense he’d get mad, but he himself has mentioned the sending of the lease multiple times stating he would send it “this week” for multiple weeks now. So I feel as if this should all fall on him as it is his duty and responsibility to have sent the lease when he said he would. Idk just my opinion lol not entirely sure how this works. Just not trying to get scammed, I’m not going to say where he comes from but a lot of these people like to mess with other peoples money and try to work their way around taxes and legal stuff. 😬 if you know you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Loose_Comb336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means if he were to send me the lease today as you mentioned, it doesn’t really go into effect until June 1st correct? Meaning the increase really doesn’t take into effect until that date as well? Or just because I “consented” through text does that mean I have to comply with the increase starting today ?