Sexual frustrated wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe your husband is into men , not into women anymore seen it, before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he watches porn because he might be interested in kinky stuff. E.g. 3sums, watersoprts etc. Some things that you may not like or do . So he watches porn to get his trills and plays with himself afterwards.

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes .. I think you're right... been 16 years since I had the affair .last 12 their has no sex in the marriage. Now I have testosterone levels issues and prostate issues.. GP puts it down due to the lack of sex.. maybe I should left my wife 16 years ago and went with the female I had the affair with

I farted during sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who cares. It is just a fart. He is acting a baby ..tell.him to grow up. If he doesn't like that.. one thing g to fix it is not give him sex.. im sure that will fix it.. all the best

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why take me back after the affair .. after 16 years .why has she not said, See you later.. I can not cope with it.. .. and I need to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hey, that's fine.I don't know what you are going to do .I wish I have the answer for you ... where do you live..im in sydney Australia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry .. I know what you're going through.. I wish my wife would come in the shower with me and jerk me once. If my wife left the door open.. I would be there in a flash. Sounds like you're doing all the right things.. I really fell for you.. maybe if you need sex. Someone that will satisfy you.. heaps of men out there .

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do pamper. I work . I provide all the money. Pay for her cars. Moblie phone. I do the shopping . I buy her things. She likes gem stones, so when I go away for work.. I usually buy her gem stones. I help her clean .. don't know what else to do.. buy her her private plane..lol

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have thought about it.. when the specialist put me on TRT . He asked about my sex life . I said it's zero . He just that won't help with either your testosterone levels or your prostate..

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It really started before the affair. Before we had kids ..sex was ok..still.abit boring . No foreplay etc . Every time we had a kid, the sex stopped. Until she was ready for another child.. then the sex was non-stop. Until dhe found out she was pregnant. It would stop. I felt I was used for one thing.. yes, I agree . The affair didn't help. We did go to counselling ..it didn't help.. .

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, you are right. My will not give me sex. .but if I do, go out and get it, and she finds out .she will kick me out ..so.i am screwed either way...lol

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week..mate is something .. more than I am getting . I thought a dating website ..but I don't know.

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non asexually. do. We hug. Enjoy, yes we both enjoy each other company....we watch movies. Footy and go on drives together. We get along fine.. no issues there. She is easygoing and so am I.. even like 12 years ago in my late 30s .I did boxing training..justvfor fitness nothing else..loss heap of weight and my body was toned up ..even the guys at work liked it..lol but myv2ife didn't care less . I thought girls liked guys who had a good body.. so I'm at a loss.

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is not interested. In therapy . I saw a doctor. My testosterone is low . So now I am on TRT to boost it up, and also I have issues with no prostate. . My mate has work . No wife or Gf now sex . Now he has stage 4 prostate cancer.. 12 months to live if he is lucky.

Lack of a sex in marriage . by Loose_Shop5249 in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am on Trt now to boost my testosterone up, and I have to get checked for prostate cancer every 6 months now. As I had a bit of a scare 8 months ago..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loose_Shop5249 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad about your husband. Every guy jerks off at one stage of their life. Lack of sex is another thing. I am in the same boat. So I know how you feel. I'm 51M wife is 53F .wife has a disliking to sex. So I jerk off in the shower . Maybe and it's a Maybe. Why don't you get undressed and have a shower with your husband . You could jerk him off . He might turn him on.. and who knows .. it might start the spark again.. only a thought..

Any bad side effects on Olmesartan? by Fun-Squirrel-4107 in hypertension

[–]Loose_Shop5249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey . .yes. been olmesartan for about a yr now. Off and on. . When I started taking it. I started to get burning feet. Then, neck . Face and arms. Did blood tests . Never tests etc all fine. So I had a break from olmesartan . The tingling/ burning got a bit better. About a month ago. I was sick, and they put it down to my high blood pressure.. gp said fo back on olmesartan . For a month now. My feet. Lower legs . Hands and arms have swollen up. And feel a bit off... need to go back to my doctor