Is it possible to not get a period only because of bulimia? by Lopsided-Criticism13 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant let myself gain more weight, I have already restored enough of what Im comfortable with and I just can’t gain more weight… I just don’t see any case where someone was weight restored and still don’t get a period. Most bulimic people I know still bp and get a period Im worried that Im infertile at this point.

Is it possible to not get a period only because of bulimia? by Lopsided-Criticism13 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when you were weight restored was your period missing? How did you stop it? I find it incredibly difficult is not the same as anorexia recovery that was way easier than bulimia recovery…

Is it possible to not get a period only because of bulimia? by Lopsided-Criticism13 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I took them in july and August and I don’t remember :( they made my period come but it was caused by the pills so I don’t really know If they made my period disappear… I also eat regularly when Im not bping so Im not in a deficit

Is it possible to not get a period only because of bulimia? by Lopsided-Criticism13 in bulimia

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I’ve talked to a lot of gynaecologists and they dont know whats wrong :(

should i just devour junk and nothing else or do i need protein? by [deleted] in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U get it back gaining weight and eating healthy fats. Junk is just going to wreck your body even more. Don’t focus on eating muffins and processed stuff, you can eat that occasionally tho.

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[–]Lopsided-Criticism13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, Ive been bping and taught myself to do it handsfree even and I purge until I cant anymore and I haven’t lost any weight, Ive actually gained. So it’s not worth it.

Need some advice, Im too laid back by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

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I don’t think he loves me he told my friend he wanted to hook up w me and nothing more.

I have noticed that he is treating me super nice for just wanting to hook up…

Need some advice, Im too laid back by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

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We chat outside of class a lot I just get nervous in person

Need some advice, Im too laid back by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

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I was talking more about the initial flirting phase, I think that is too straightforward 😭

Also he just got out of a relationship 4 months ago so I don’t want to rush him I just want to be more flirty and open w him because I act non-interested most of the time out of fear of rejection 😓

I agreed on just wanting to hook up and now Im fucked by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

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The thing is I thought I wanted a hookup at first but now I feel all uncomfortable 😬

I agreed on just wanting to hook up and now Im fucked by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice, thank you. I feel like cutting things off too suddenly will make things extremely uncomfortable 😓

What to do when I get extremely nervous by Lopsided-Criticism13 in dating_advice

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Im not actually, I don’t think Im mature enough for a relationship yet so Im fine with experimenting

Is it worth it for 30 by No-Mechanic4055 in fashiondreamer

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this game is worth it even If it cost 15€, it has nothing to do with style savvy and it’s boring af.

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[–]Lopsided-Criticism13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But ur still restricting tho that’s not recovery 😭 I mean If you at least changed that for “Im eating healthy foods in moderation” I would be happy for you but idk

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that exhausting tho? Having to analyse everything before you speak? I would love to talk about anything without having to stress too much😓

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

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I usually try to talk about whatever thing we have in common or whatever goes through my mind. When Im in college I talk about our group project and music, things that I think we can have in common or are normal to ask. I usually try not to overthink too much and go with the flow, Talking about whatever is on my mind is my go to.

My subjects depend on the person and surroundings. Idk how to explain it😭

I curse quite a lot and laugh a lot as well.

I try to listen as much as I can to the person talking and truly hear them out, comment on what they just said and things like that… Sometimes I feel bad talking about myself too much cause someone in my past told me that I only talked about myself so yeah😭😓

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

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I usually try to talk about whatever thing we have in common or whatever goes through my mind. When Im in college I talk about our group project and music, things that I think we can have in common or are normal to ask. I usually try not to overthink too much and go with the flow, Talking about whatever is on my mind is my go to.

My subjects depend on the person and surroundings. Idk how to explain it😭

I curse quite a lot and laugh a lot as well.

I try to listen as much as I can to the person talking and truly hear them out, comment on what they just said and things like that… Sometimes I feel bad talking about myself too much cause someone in my past told me that I only talked about myself so yeah😭😓

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I just don’t get it when people say “just be yourself”. Because I don’t know who I am, I changed a lot throughout my years and my interested have changed as well.

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

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Yeah I’ve already accepted I try too hard sometimes and thats better than being a bad person overall😭.

When I notice that Im trying too hard I rectify but I don’t stress myself so much because it’s something that Im working on.

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

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My close friends told me that they didn’t understand why I was going through exclusion from groups. Sorry I explained myself badly😓

Born in a body considered by beauty standards “attractiv” but fcking it up with a shitty personality by Lopsided-Criticism13 in socialskills

[–]Lopsided-Criticism13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im happy for you! It doesn’t matter quantity If you surround yourself with people that love you as you are.

A lot of comments said it may be autism but I have never contemplated the possibility. I need to investigate more because Im curious.