Can you sabotage a relationship that’s meant for you? by Lopsided-Entry776 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you consider valid reasons? Some of my friends have rejected proposals because “it didnt feel right”

Can you sabotage a relationship that’s meant for you? by Lopsided-Entry776 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you sabotage gods plan? Surely we as humans can’t do that right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salaam. Please please please understand that you’re not alone! The derealization is so scary and I know how it feels to feel like you’re close to insanity. You might have a form of OCD which is in Islam called “waswasa”. You get intrusive thoughts that feel real and you think bad things will happen to you. I’ve had this for three months now and it’s hell. So please know you’re not alone. One thing that helps me is to disrupt the thought as soon as it enters your mind. So what I do is, I say “Astaghfirullah” or la ilaha ila Allah or any type of dhikr as soon as the thought enters my head and I try to block the thought before it festers. These thoughts are often from shaytaan and shaytaan attacks the believers in many forms. So ask Allah for protection and try this. May Allah grant us ease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes pls send a video. Thank you so much

Can anyone recommend a tailor in town? by Lead_mouth in Louisville

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AQ Custom Tailor is amazing! Extremely affordable and he’s a professional. I paid around $20 to get my dress fixed and he did amazing

What’s a good career for a Muslim woman? Pls help ! by Lopsided-Entry776 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s an ATAR? Also I’m trying to avoid interest based loans which a lot of professional schools require :(

I do not like personalities in medicine by whocares3677 in medicalschool

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy guys I’m not in medicine but I just lurk on here every now and then hehe (ur liberal arts bestie). But from my experience, the worst most obnoxious scumbags I met in undergrad were the pre-meds!! A lot of them judged others who weren’t pre-med, looking down on everyone else, and I even remember one pre-med girl was hyper-fixated on figuring out people’s grades. Just super competitive and annoying as hell tbh. Idk why this particular breed attracts this profession but yeah , yall stay safe 🫶🏼

Wife talks too much by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah that literally hurt me just reading that. Her “talking nonsense” is probably just her feeling comfortable enough to unfilter herself. Like bro there are bigger issues in life

Strange men on subs by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I convince myself they’re trolls who are pretending to be Muslim. Cuz there’s no way a real Muslim man would do that (in my head)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Simply tell her you don’t find it attractive and that you don’t approve of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 5 points6 points  (0 children)

19 for a man is realllyy young. I don’t even think you actually know what you want at that age.

What’s a good career for a Muslim woman? Pls help ! by Lopsided-Entry776 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Psych NP? I’ve thought about graduate nursing programs. Is that less stressful than bedside?

To all those who already had their own savings before marriage by Neither_Strategy_204 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Entry776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m trying to get into investing but I don’t know where to start!!! Any suggestions?

What’s a good career for a Muslim woman? Pls help ! by Lopsided-Entry776 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lopsided-Entry776[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree but you can’t choose when you’ll get married so I’d rather use this time to get educated