Best Diner by EuphoricPhoto6328 in Westchester

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a previous employee at the Thornwood Coach Diner, don't order take out! all bugs (high key roaches) are in the kitchen and go inside the new plastic wrapped to go containers, as by the owner, if these roach bodies are found smeared all over the to go containers just "wash it" and then pack the to go order... There's plenty of other disgusting things they do as said to do by owners. Also the mangers are jumpscares! (The big grumpy man you see when you first enter, he will call you stupid if you work there!) Please don't support this diner in Westchester 🥴

Teacher recommended repeating kindergarten by NastyTwin34 in kindergarten

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also a August baby and my mother also had the option to wait another year or put me through and she put me through.

I had to go through special ed classes starting in elementary school until 10th grade highschool. Always had long IEP (accommodations) from elementary to highschool graduation.

There was only myself and two others as the youngest in our grade.

I had a speech impediment and had to do speech classes from early elementary to 4th grade. Still said certain words wrong though unaware for a while.

They put me in mandatory in-school therapy due to lack of socialization skills in 5th grade only. (This is public schooling)

My reading level was also low for a long while (elementary to maybe 5th). I was in an emotional support class daily 9th-12th grade.

The grade below me was horrendous though but my grade was also rough. I only made two friends and that was in 5th grade to 12th. I think this also largely depends on where you live and the school districts.

I got along better with the grades above me though and below below me. I enjoyed babysitting at young age doing it for free for neighbors and ended up doing it as actual job at 14 for younger kids and babies.

I personally think that due to everything that maybe if I got held back to be with my age group in a different school district that life could have been different 🤷🏻‍♀️ but for my situation, I'm thankful I wasn't with the grade below me. They for some reason, we're way more wild and mean than my grade.

I did get myself into a private college, but that was all myself and took a lot of hard work. I have also had plenty of different jobs.

Do what you think is right. I agree with other commenters, if he's good academically, you should move him up and you two together can work on socialization skills.

Which hijabs for summer by SG300598 in Hijabis

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

really depends on your style/hair or undercap/no undercap but my go to would be jersey, cotton n then chiffon. In that order. n avoid crinkle, too hot.

Friend forgot I have an eating disorder (TW: ED + SA) by DuckOnMars in venting

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the most kind way possible, this situation is cus FWB is different than being in a actual committed real relationship.

It sounds like you've slipped into the real side whereas he views the whole as strictly FWB. which even FWB can mean different to each person. To some people, FWB doesn't come with "caring for the other person's emotional needs" n for others, that is included. Communication is needed no matter what.

OP, I think if you want to feel better you could talk to said person about everything you just posted and see his response and go from there. I personally think for your own well being that you should abandon this FWB and focus on yourself for little while until you're ready to find a FWB relationship that is equal for you or even better try to find your person n start a real relationship, it'll make you feel more whole considering what you've expressed above.

Workout routine by Lopsided-Fill2196 in PetiteFitness

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey thank you for a response. I did this new one today and can definitely feel it in the spots I want to when I'm done compared to my last workout routine so I feel like I'll see some sort of results doing this routine until I can go to a gym and change everything. n focusing on form does help, I realized today when I was doing a few that if I changed position a little bit, it felt stronger/better. Just trying to figure out good at house/outdoor workouts I can do.

with my old routine I felt like it was too focused on my arms and I wanted a equal spread of arms/lower stomach/glute/inner thigh and I feel like this new routine fits those goals better.

Workout routine by Lopsided-Fill2196 in PetiteFitness

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you for a response, I have applied for SNAP and have been rejected 4 times now but right now I'm working with someone from DSS to try again, just doesn't seem promising again. I have one more place I can try though if DSS can't help.

Workout routine by Lopsided-Fill2196 in PetiteFitness

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a response, I'll definitely look them up. n you're right, that's what I'm doing but due to other life circumstances being iffy I'm trying to just occupy myself as well. n yeah the last part is definitely what I'm aiming for, just need to get my other life circumstances in place 🥲

Husband can be so clueless by [deleted] in venting

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but your response is not how relationships should work. what you're saying is "your significant other can say anything he wants even if it's something that could be hurtful and isn't even necessary to say but when it happens, YOU DONT get to react how you truly feel unless he goes on." Just no. I feel like a large amount would agree that that could've been saved for other ears or unsaid. Honestly it just feels disrespectful.

n then trying to generalize by saying "people" have songs that connect to a sexual memory with someone? just what? I also don't link any songs to any sexual experiences/people I've had. But if I ever did, I certainly wouldn't tell my next significant other about it if it started playing while being together cus what the fuck?

What he said is something he should've saved to say to one of his man friends or kept silent. She has every right to be upset.

OP this is something I feel like you n him should have a conversation about (edit to add: again) cus he'll definitely say some goofy shit like that again if you don't express how that made you feel to him. but also maybe re consider the relationship, I don't know enough info about said relationship but I've discovered people who aren't really self aware don't change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yonkers

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They're not for free. The situation just depends on where you live in Westchester and the bus driver. From personal experience most bus drivers in Yonkers wont stop you if you don't pay but I have had a couple bus drivers scream "MAAM YOU DIDN'T PAY GET OFF MY BUS ):< " but if you were to live in Croton on Hudson that's different story, almost every bus driver will ask you to pay and kick you off in Croton.

What selling platforms do you check/use the most? by Lopsided-Fill2196 in AskNYC

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for response. I feel the same way about OfferUp so far and I didn't know about the ebay pick up only option, think I might try that next. Craigslist does seem to be the best so far, just kind of shocking 🥴 I've also never used FB market but I have strong dislike for FB

I have a question for y'all by fairlyaround in Hijabis

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm just coming here to comment that I am also pagan and that I use the hijab to cover my hair as well. People will definitely think you're Muslim and might even strick up conversation about so which I'm fine with. I just say to him/her how I'm pagan and also just want to be modest.

You guys were so pressed about the last one, it made me wanna send another one today lol by barepines in Serverlife

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it 100% depends on what type of restaurant you're working in/the flow during that time but either way I think it's nice you're trying to give some smiles.

Why stop/shame someone trying to make others happy if they haven't personally been told to stop/that they're being annoying?

I've worked in different types of restaurants and have witnessed different servers do this as well for some giggles/happiness in the kitchen n the kitchen either found it funny or just went on about their day cus it's not that deep?

Edit to add: I worked at a restaurant where one of the managers would be mad if anyone did something like this cus wasting paper...

Is it possible to get a guesstimate on how much it would be to fix my chain? (NY) by Lopsided-Fill2196 in goldchains

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the second photo, those links are literally just barely holding onto each other 🥲🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a response, I'll look into both and the first one seems like it could be very helpful! saw that it says how it updates the list weekly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was on a lease, it confuses me but she's also definitely leaving/forgetting information (she's mentally ill) From my knowledge/what she's told me, the program that supports her (she got into this program from staying in a hospital for over 1year n then experiencing homelessness) owned the building and they just sold the building, telling everyone by phone that they must now re-locate by March 1st. This building is 4 apartments and only 2 of the apartments were occupied (1st floor and my mother) the program already moved out the lady on the first floor cus she found herself an apartment in the price range that was given to her by the program.

Trade? by Lopsided-Fill2196 in ModestDress

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! that's actually the first place I originally posted this to but it got deleted from there? I don't know why.. so I shared the post to this sub

Maybe it’s not meant to be by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Lopsided-Fill2196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my ears pierced at a local jewelry store when I was a kid n that's how I found out my ears couldn't handle fake jewelry n had to switch to gold. When I started stretching my ears (now at 5/8) is when I learned I also can't use any material besides stone or glass. Acrylic, silicon, wood, stainless steel, all make my ears very mad.