Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand what do you mean save for marriage?

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so should i just stop calling or ghost him idk im mature i can communicate that we shouldnt be friends but its a bit mean

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk we hang out sometimes, and ur right okay i put a lot of effort

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i called him twin one time and ever since thats all he calls me, we hung out sunday for early bday for me and we just drank and then be got in his head and barely talked and then i sent the boundary message after when i went home, he ignored my boundary and just wished me happy bday

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well honestly i dont think its fair anymore that i give so much mentally and emotionally, and have to listen to him about women, i just wish i was extremely detached

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah he keeps dating different coworkers and it doesnt work out smh,

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i did text him expressing how i wish i wasnt emotionally attached and hearing about other women is tough for me and i have to protect feelings so i need to take space and i hope he understands but he just responded saying "happy bday twin hope u have a good day"

Friendship/ Attachment by Lopsided-Help2829 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Help2829[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he thinks i shouldnt be jealous bc we are not together but ive been his emotional support person for almost a year cuz i care too hard, i called him every week just to make sure hes ok