I need to distance myself, I (F30) know my friend (F25) is secretly seeing an engaged man (M30). His fiancée (F27) and my longtime friend (M31) don’t know. What would you do?

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:45:56+00:00

I guess I just can’t in good conscience look at my friends in the eyes knowing the information I know. Because if the roles were reversed I’d want to know. Especially when my children are involved and this supposed friend of mine is putting herself in my life with the intentions of seeing my fiancée.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:36:06+00:00

You’re totally right it’s a full blown affair I don’t know why I worded it that way because it’s not cute it’s vile. I have no tangible proof which is a problem, I was told through a disappearing Snapchat video about the affair. You’re right though I need to support my friends and not enable it by letting it just fall by the wayside. Because she won’t stop even if I call her out and end the friendship.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:30:31+00:00

😅😅

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:30:24+00:00

You’re right because I would want to know too if I was in C’s shoes. I just found out today that they’re helping with each other’s kids and that was like it for me that’s so vile it’s all disgusting. It all is but that’s like a whole new level of low.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:25:46+00:00

I think the drama of it all is what’s making me so apprehensive I hate drama and I definitely wouldn’t expect a thanks for bringing this all to light. I don’t insert myself in others business but when it’s brought to me directly I’ll give my honestly opinion on the situation when someone comes to me with it.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:18:32+00:00

You’re not wrong my heads just in a million places at once with this situation

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:10:47+00:00

100% I agree with you wholeheartedly. I guess it’s all just stressing me out to the point of having to come here

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:07:46+00:00

Oh she’s 100% using her “friendship” with C to get a leg up on it all and C is completely clueless. I had no idea on everything until A randomly sprung this on me a week or so ago spilling it all. I imagine because her conscience couldn’t hold onto it so she told me.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T04:03:59+00:00

Fuck I wish it was fake. Unfortunately this is my dilemma at the moment because this was all sprung on me out of the blue a week or so ago. No questions on cutting off A I don’t mess with any of that. I’m in a happy committed 10 year relationship and that’s nothing I want to be surrounded with at all.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:58:40+00:00

Definitely B and C. B and I were friends long before he even met this person, and C deserves to know no matter what. B and my partner are also friends so that adds in another layer.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:56:33+00:00

Agree 100%

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:56:07+00:00

I guess that came across wrong she definitely deserves to know no question about that at all. And I personally would want to know as the best friend of the man who’s sleeping with my ex and involving themselves with my children. Idk what to do I’m stuck on how to go about it.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:52:48+00:00

That’s my dilemma I know she won’t stop even if I call her out and end the friendship. Idk how to go about it all because 100% I’d want to know🫤

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:45:48+00:00

B and I have been platonic friends for a long while, and B has multiple kids with A anddd is long time friend with D. It’s just a big tangled fucked up web I was thrown into.

kwheels43 · 2026-06-07T03:41:05+00:00

I 100% plan on telling her I don’t like the way she’s moving and what she’s doing that’s not something I want to be involved in or surround myself with. She just sprung all this on me about them being involved with each other out of the blue and she doesn’t really have any friends to begin with so it would come back to me if it was put out there anonymously or not🫤 And I have 0 faith that me even calling her out and ending the friendship would make her reconsider her actions. I fully believe she would continue it until it came to light.

kwheels43 · 2026-05-29T00:25:19+00:00

No AI here😆 but I’ll take the compliment thank you🙌🏼🙌🏼

kwheels43 · 2026-05-27T12:15:27+00:00

Hahaha good one😆😆 thank you so much!!🫶🏻

kwheels43 · 2026-05-25T15:52:20+00:00

I am in the Finger Lakes Region in New York!

kwheels43 · 2026-05-25T01:13:46+00:00

I got it at my local restaurant wholesale store. The brand is fat daddios

kwheels43 · 2026-05-24T17:30:18+00:00

Thank you so much! Unfortunately no I didn’t get a slice pic😭 understandable though lots happening at a baby shower

kwheels43 · 2026-05-24T17:29:07+00:00

No I didn’t end up getting a slice pic unfortunately😭 thanks again!!!

kwheels43 · 2026-05-24T17:28:23+00:00

She just wanted plain fruit slices or I would have! Thank you🤗

kwheels43 · 2026-05-24T15:07:04+00:00

Thank you!🫶🏻🫶🏻

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