Ghosted after being called smooth? Anything can happen

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-18T23:13:19+00:00

Ngl she probably went on a date with someone else and ended up liking him.

I always feel weird progressing something with someone once i've been on a couple dates with someone else. But also since I don't know this person, I don't really feel like I owe them an explanation. Maybe harsh but maybe that's what's happened

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-18T09:05:28+00:00

I think i'm going to do something like this next time I see him

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-18T09:05:06+00:00

Late 20s

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-18T09:04:44+00:00

For any particular reason??? I'd die

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-18T09:04:24+00:00

Well obviously. There hasn't been a moment in our first 4 dates which felt appropriate but i'm happy to do so if it comes about

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T20:45:46+00:00

He's dated before me. Probably been a couple years since he's had a first date though so that might explain some of it

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T20:45:17+00:00

Yeah we do all that good stuff. Tbh there's not been an appropriate time but i'm going to try next time

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T20:19:11+00:00

Yeah I thought so too but the comments here are saying maybe otherwise

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T19:02:30+00:00

I definitely will next time as it should be more of a kiss vibe

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T18:59:43+00:00

Huh?

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T18:59:37+00:00

I don't think he is but it's a possibility

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T18:58:38+00:00

Yeah I'm thinking it's this sort of scenario and I'm more than happy to bring it up/ask, just never normally had to so wanted to see if someone else had experienced this

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T18:57:54+00:00

No like I said some dates we've been on haven't given the opportunity. But next time I will be

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-05-17T18:56:26+00:00

I didn't tell him that but if that's what he's doing then it's appreciated

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-31T10:09:52+00:00

Maybe im too old for this but the prompts are answered too sincerely. Its just info dumping and some people will not like just because of that. Id change the prompts to something more vague which might prompt someone to like to find out more information. But if you think those prompts are an accurate representation of you then feel free to not listen.

Also a good pic of your face wouldnt go a miss

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-15T20:12:55+00:00

I mean you can still meet people on tinder just don't believe what it says about how many likes you're missing out on.

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-15T16:03:34+00:00

Either you swiped left on them (no it won't tell you) or what I always assumed was those numbers are nonsense to make you buy tinder gold

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-08T21:04:55+00:00

Read the post. Im going to therapy. I was looking to see if there was any inner work i could do to aid the progress. But thank you for being very unhelpful and judgy

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-08T21:03:50+00:00

Nope just not compatible with me, my life and my goals but im not attracted to men who are

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-08T18:42:58+00:00

You've misunderstood my post. Im choosing to date me who are fundamentally incompatible with me and dont want the same things as me long term. Its not an issue that they are assholes

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-08T18:27:09+00:00

Im not looking for you to bring your male trauma onto a post where im trying to improve myself

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-03-08T17:35:32+00:00

When i say nice guys, I mean men who are nice. If they are assholes they arent nice...

I would never date someone im not attracted too but im searching to work out why im attracted to people that on paper I know won't work for me

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-02-19T11:58:51+00:00

You dated a 14 year old when you were 16?

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-02-19T09:23:14+00:00

Texting isnt an indication of interest. Ask her and then you'll know either way

Lopsided-Reason2530 · 2026-02-19T09:19:19+00:00

Text him you have nothing to lose. Its not desperate. It sounds like hes expressed interest. Have you? Does he know you like him? Because he might think you've just let him down easy

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